[Raptor leader]

I started seeing this person and found out or observed the following:

1. Constantly talking to herself, mumbles to herself.

2. Told her about an incident and she promptly thought it was about her, although I clearly told her it was about someone else.

3. Sends the same SMS with comments like "thoughts of you turn me on", bit it feels like she just copies and sends the same message.

4. Was sleeping with another guy when we met but didn't tell me and then broke up with him a month into our relationship.

5. Invited same guy to her house and when he tried to kiss her responded and then told me it felt awkward and she told him to leave (she called him home to tell him they were breaking up)

6. Very proudly tells me off how she dobs in coworkers to senior management of her company bypassing local supervisors.

7. Sends me screenshots of her conversations with other people.

8. Sends me screenshots of her emails to her boss or her landlord.

9. Puts in irrelevant information in emails, for example she wrote, "my boyfriend xxx came in a white car to drop off a sofa, my old sofa is outside for collection for hard rubbish and my guy friend yyy said I need a new adaptor for my tv."

10. Tells her friends she is dating a fireman with a big package, instead of saying she is dating a nice guy.

[MsLady]

Well, you've posted 10 things about her "you're" concerned with so maybe it's best to walk away from her.

Trust yourself.

[Have Hope]

I agree with the above. Trust your instinct. If something feels off, it often IS off.

[divine1966]

She sounds like a piece of work. She sure wants attention 24/7 even if it’s bad attention! She demonstrates extreme case of insecurity

She likely puts completely irrelevant info in emails to sound important (acting like she has a lot going on but likely there is nothing going on), thinks everything is about her (she wished everything was about her, the news are it is NOT !). Sends you screenshots? Omg (Again cry for attention)

Now if she was important to you like your family or something, I’d try to investigate what’s the deal, is she insecure?. But you just started dating her and she is already insufferable! It’s going to get worse.

In addition she is unsafe as she sleeps with other people and wouldn’t tell you! Ouch.

Please be safe.

[~Christina]

Drop her right away.. Hello _______ I am sorry things are not going to work out .. I wish you the best. Then block her on your phone and any social media and move along with life.

[Raptor leader]

Hi all!
Thank you for your input. Broke up with her today. Blocked her on on social media platforms.
She told me as I was leaving that she was still with the other guy even though she told me they had broken up. I wished her all the best with him 😉

[IceCreamKid]

Originally Posted by Raptor leader

I started seeing this person and found out or observed the following:

1. Constantly talking to herself, mumbles to herself.

2. Told her about an incident and she promptly thought it was about her, although I clearly told her it was about someone else.

3. Sends the same SMS with comments like "thoughts of you turn me on", bit it feels like she just copies and sends the same message.

4. Was sleeping with another guy when we met but didn't tell me and then broke up with him a month into our relationship.

5. Invited same guy to her house and when he tried to kiss her responded and then told me it felt awkward and she told him to leave (she called him home to tell him they were breaking up)

6. Very proudly tells me off how she dobs in coworkers to senior management of her company bypassing local supervisors.

7. Sends me screenshots of her conversations with other people.

8. Sends me screenshots of her emails to her boss or her landlord.

9. Puts in irrelevant information in emails, for example she wrote, "my boyfriend xxx came in a white car to drop off a sofa, my old sofa is outside for collection for hard rubbish and my guy friend yyy said I need a new adaptor for my tv."

10. Tells her friends she is dating a fireman with a big package, instead of saying she is dating a nice guy.

Does your girlfriend have a mental health diagnosis? Some of what she is doing sounds like she is attempting to engage you in her life, for example the screen shots of her emails to people, but I am not sure why she is sharing some of the other stuff. It also sounds like she does not realize how she comes across. How do you think she would react if you told her--gently but directly? "I'm uncomfortable with your telling me private information about your coworkers...if you think you must notify senior management, maybe you should do that quietly..." Her reaction to that would be illustrative I think. I've never discussed private things like #10 with my friends; and I have never understood women who do (or men who do something similar); I find it objectifying and would not want to associate with someone who didn't see me as a whole person.

[Crazy Hitch]

Woah!!!! You got out of a bad relationship. She’s psycho

[divine1966]

Good for you. Smart move and keep her blocked. You don’t need someone like that

[Molk]

Originally Posted by Raptor leader

Hi all!
Thank you for your input. Broke up with her today. Blocked her on on social media platforms.
She told me as I was leaving that she was still with the other guy even though she told me they had broken up. I wished her all the best with him 😉

Wow, what a story! But I love your "I wished her all the best with him 😉".
I remember meeting a girl once who after five minutes or so started talking sh** about races, foreigners etc. I was listening in disbelief for a while and then left in the middle of her monologue about foreigners taking our jobs.