[Aviza]

I'm starting to not like him no matter how good on paper he is. My arms worker says he'd be a healthy relationship. I disagree. He smokes pot, has angry outbursts, cares too much about his stuff like too much. I get it he worked hard for it but stuff breaks, gets old, wears out. I just see his caring so much as a red flag. Frankly, I gave him a shot cause he checks so many boxes on my pros and cons list but honestly there's no chemistry and the cons are too much now.

What I liked and who he is aren't right for me. Now to tell him. He really likes me and was listening to all my suggestions but i really don't like him. Well I figured it out.

[SorryShaped]

Originally Posted by Aviza

I'm starting to not like him no matter how good on paper he is. My arms worker says he'd be a healthy relationship. I disagree. He smokes pot, has angry outbursts, cares too much about his stuff like too much. I get it he worked hard for it but stuff breaks, gets old, wears out. I just see his caring so much as a red flag. Frankly, I gave him a shot cause he checks so many boxes on my pros and cons list but honestly there's no chemistry and the cons are too much now.


What I liked and who he is aren't right for me. Now to tell him. He really likes me and was listening to all my suggestions but i really don't like him. Well I figured it out.

It's not usually very easy, but you're going to have be honest, to the point, and quick about it. Good luck

[Have Hope]

How long have you been dating him? If it's less than a month, then it should be easy enough to cut off and say goodbye.

[divine1966]

Everything in your state is still
closed. People are supposed to keep distance and wear a mask if they are meeting someone. How and where are you dating each other and how is he already a boyfriend?

[Aviza]

He moved fast cause he really likes me. We met in Nov. He has a house and a boat so I went there twice, once for a boat ride. I really wanted to get to know him now i know enough.

[MsLady]

Originally Posted by Aviza

He moved fast cause he really likes me..

That's not usually why. It's a red flag when someone moves quickly into a relationship. Now you're seeing other signs. End it. You're not interested.

[divine1966]

Men don’t move fast because they like you. It’s the opposite. They usually move slow when they really like you because: 1. They don’t want to scare you 2. They respect you and your boundaries 3. They don’t think sex is the most important thing 4. They want to get to know you first 5. They hope for the future with yiu and they know it’s important not to rush

Be careful going to mens houses and go on boats unless you dated them for awhile

[Amethyst_Stargazer]

If your sensing red flags with him, I would end it. This is why I get nervous anytime a relationship moves on too quickly. I once was involved with someone who was very abusive towards me, but I won't get into further detail. If you sense something is off with him and your not comfortable, end it. Especially if you don't like him that much anyways. Good luck.