[Iamwho]

I feel like I am only liked for what I bring to the table money wise and sex wise. The way I am treated and talked to makes me feel awful. Of course there are the times I feel ecstatic and in love. Am I just being to to paranoid?

[MsLady]

If the way you are treated makes you feel awful and used, then that's how you feel. No one here has a right to say you're "just" being "paranoid" because those feelings belong to you.

So, either address this issue with your SO, or end it, ASAP.

Sorry you're feeling this way. If you can financially sustain yourself, then don't settle for someone who is taking advantage of you. Cut the cord. Move forward.

[Crazy Hitch]

Have you had this conversation with your significant other? Some people just have shocking social skills and he's not treating you the way you deserve to be treated.

What's your current mood status if you don't mind me asking? Sometimes when I'm depressed I need a bit of a reality check as to what I do contribute to the relationship and what I'm valued for.

[TishaBuv]

If you feel you are being used, then you are being used. Don’t let anyone use you if you don’t want to and it makes you feel bad.