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Old Jul 21, 2020, 05:51 PM
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I'm going through a tough time with my husband just now and I don't know who to talk to? I have caught him on his phone looking at
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.he also looks at girls when we go out and I always catch him at it and I don't know what to do

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Old Jul 21, 2020, 09:07 PM
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How old is your husband?
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Old Jul 21, 2020, 09:23 PM
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If he looks at images of underage girls, you ought to inform law enforcement immediately. Call police right away. They’ll either forward your call to a proper department or take care of it themselves. Call your local police station ASAP
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Old Jul 22, 2020, 01:37 AM
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Have you talked with your husband about it?
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Old Jul 22, 2020, 02:45 AM
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There is no way of getting around this one, you have to tell someone before it escalates.
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Old Jul 22, 2020, 04:53 AM
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That's disturbing ... have you confronted him about it? If so, what did he say?
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Old Jul 22, 2020, 11:55 AM
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If by "indicent" you mean photos of a sexual nature he is engaging in child porn.

If he is over 18, it doesn't matter what age he is. Do NOT confront him. You need to report him to law enforcement. You said he is looking at young teens in your presence. That is a warning sign that it is a matter of time before he dies more than look.
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Old Jul 22, 2020, 12:15 PM
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I would like to know if "young teens" are like 13 and 14 or underage teens or more like 18 and 19 which a lot of models begin modeling. If he is say 23 and looking at 19 year olds that doesn't equate to pedophile, but if he is looking at much younger girls then I agree with others in that being a VERY concerning red flag.
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Old Jul 22, 2020, 11:59 PM
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I agree with what others are saying... if you suspect that these photos are underage girls... I would highly recommend that you report your husband to the police. Also do you have children with this man? daughters in particular? I would keep an eye on him when hes around the children.
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Old Jul 23, 2020, 05:39 AM
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Misha how are you? We haven’t heard back from you. Are you all right?
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Old Jul 24, 2020, 08:17 AM
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I'm going through a tough time with my husband just now and I don't know who to talk to? I have caught him on his phone looking at
Possible trigger:
.he also looks at girls when we go out and I always catch him at it and I don't know what to do
Sorry about your situation. That must feel awful. I'm guessing that it makes you feel inadequate. You said you always catch him looking at girls. Have you confronted him and told him how it makes you feel?
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