[emoangel]

Lately ive been thinking about the relationship im in but i havent come to any conclusions. We are just starting to get over a major issue. Basically i went to see an old friend of mine that i used to be involved with, and he hit on me a lot, and i didnt have the guts to tell him to stop, and i wasnt sure that i was uncomfortable until i got home and felt really guilty. So i told my boyfriend and of course it made him upset. I am just overwhelmed with guilt, but hes told me its ok and that we just need to work on things. Which is fine and as a matter of fact ive already taken the first step. My issue is, i say i love him, and i know that i did, but im confused as to what love is, and at my age im not sure if i should know or not (18, im a wee one) so....i dont know, im just utterly confused and unsure of everything, but i feel like i cant tell him that im not sure if i love him or not, because we've been saying it to each other quite a bit. Maybe i took the words too lightly. *sigh*

"in a haze a stormy haze i'll be round i'll be loving you always, always...here i am and i take my time here i am ill wait in line always, always..." ~coldplay~

[splash]

I'm definitely the last person you'd want to come to for relationship advice. I do believe in communication as being key in overcoming obstacles, whether personally or in relationships. Have the two of you discussed how you feel?

Best wishes...

[Willow]

I'm in the same boat as splash, but just thought I'd let you know I "hear" you.

It's a wild world, but someone's gotta ride it!

[Katie]

I don't think any of us can tell you how you know if you love some one. I've asked my mother for advice on this and she says you just know, but I'm not sure it's that simple for everyone. I'm not overly communicative with telling people I love them, so if I think if it feels weird in my belly then it must be wrong. (Very profound advice hey?). I still haven't figured this whole thing out....love, lust, crushes, I don't know....