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Default Mar 02, 2021 at 08:30 AM
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I believe that men being registered in some online dating apps even if they're older still remain sexually frustrated kids seeing all the women there as sexual victims they definitely need to have sexual relations with...
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Default Mar 02, 2021 at 03:22 PM
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I believe that men being registered in some online dating apps even if they're older still remain sexually frustrated kids seeing all the women there as sexual victims they definitely need to have sexual relations with...
This is generalizing. It’s not the case with all men at all
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Default Mar 03, 2021 at 05:02 PM
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I realize that not all men are sexually frustrated kids, of course, however, the thing is that there are too many men on these online dating apps who don't see the fine line between the wish to have a real long-term relationship with a woman and wanting a woman so nuts that they can't control their instincts
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Default Mar 04, 2021 at 02:53 PM
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How short are you?
Society punish differences. This is a fact.
But, I already tell you that women, in general, based on my experience, they are more deeper than caring about height.

I don’t know an app for dating, to be honest, I only here about tinder but I think this is for casual sex.
I’m sure you can find them in any google directory.
I think to remember match.com but this is not for meeting friends but for couples.

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But, I already tell you that women, in general, based on my experience, they are more deeper than caring about height.
I dunno about that. I'm 6'2 and I can tell the difference between me being fat and me being in great shape. The difference is HUUUUUGE. Women care about looks. A lot. At least the hot ones...
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I dunno about that. I'm 6'2 and I can tell the difference between me being fat and me being in great shape. The difference is HUUUUUGE. Women care about looks. A lot. At least the hot ones...
I was asking the question to the OP.

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Default Mar 04, 2021 at 05:47 PM
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Said that, @MisterPaul, I disagree with you and scientific researchers give me the reason. Women are not especially lead by physical appearance, there are others many characteristics that play a major role. It’s males who are especially lead by what they see.

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Default Mar 04, 2021 at 08:53 PM
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I am reasonably good looking yet I don’t care about looks. Especially things like height. Can anyone control height? Good looks isn’t an achievement. Now if someone isn’t groomed and looks disheveled that they control.
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I am reasonably good looking yet I don’t care about looks. Especially things like height. Can anyone control height? Good looks isn’t an achievement. Now if someone isn’t groomed and looks disheveled that they control.
I’m average but tall, so I was called giraffe when I was a kid by my peers. Such stupid thing! but you know anything that appears different are target of mockeries.
I had such a complex because of it when being a kid.
What I’m sure it’s that women are not more attracted to physics than men. Indeed, many of them measure their masculinity according to the beauty of the partners they get. It’s sad but still it happens. We have a lot to evolve.

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Default Mar 04, 2021 at 09:57 PM
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Have you tried meet up? I think they are having zoom meet ups now. In meetup the emphasis is on friendship and sharing a common interest not romance

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I disagree with you and scientific researchers give me the reason.
Oh, I don't care about researchers and their little brain-teasers. I just give you an example from my life. When I was fat/out of shape I had to put a lot of effort to meet some signs of attraction. Since I shaped up most of times I just have to say hi. My personality and confidence didn't change a bit.

Though I agree with the second part of your post. There are others many characteristics that play a major role, but if two guys are "equal" and one doesn't care about his looks, he looses. Life's harsh.

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Good looks isn’t an achievement.
You're pretty by default, aren't you? Good looks is an achievement when you don't have it at the start. From proper haircuit, taking care of one's skin and facial hair (men) through one's dressing style up to working out and staying in shape. It takes time and effort.
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Default Mar 05, 2021 at 06:47 AM
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Oh, I don't care about researchers and their little brain-teasers. I just give you an example from my life. When I was fat/out of shape I had to put a lot of effort to meet some signs of attraction. Since I shaped up most of times I just have to say hi. My personality and confidence didn't change a bit.

Though I agree with the second part of your post. There are others many characteristics that play a major role, but if two guys are "equal" and one doesn't care about his looks, he looses. Life's harsh.


You're pretty by default, aren't you? Good looks is an achievement when you don't have it at the start. From proper haircuit, taking care of one's skin and facial hair (men) through one's dressing style up to working out and staying in shape. It takes time and effort.
I thought I was clear distinguishing between being well groomed/taking care of oneself and having good looks one was born with. What you describing is grooming and taking care of oneself, yes one can control it and that matters.

OP was talking about something that one cannot control like height and being rejected because of his height that he has zero control over. Same way people have no control over size of their nose or their eyes or other feature they were born with
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Have you tried meet up? I think they are having zoom meet ups now. In meetup the emphasis is on friendship and sharing a common interest not romance
There are some meetups that are in person now and yes many are virtual
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I thought I was clear distinguishing between being well groomed/taking care of oneself and having good looks one was born with. What you describing is grooming and taking care of oneself, yes one can control it and that matters.

Grooming can make a significant difference. Furthermore, the way you dress can make your height "problem" less noticeable, wouldn't you agree?
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Default Mar 05, 2021 at 07:23 AM
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Grooming can make a significant difference. Furthermore, the way you dress can make your height "problem" less noticeable, wouldn't you agree?
No if a man is 5’4”, It doesn’t matter how he dresses, he is 5’4”. Height can’t be less noticeable. Especially not when you stand next to other people. My daughters future husband is shorter than her. It’s no matter what he wears when they walk together he is shorter. His whole family are short folks. No matter what they wear. Who cares

It doesn’t matter to me, I can’t care less but for whatever stupid reason superficial things matter to some people
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Default Mar 05, 2021 at 07:39 AM
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I personally don't care if a men is shorter than me or higher... If he is a good man, I won't pay attention to his height As I mentioned earlier about online dating apps and type of men hanging around there, many of them have just broken up with their exes, which makes them even more vulnerable and going crazy about possible sexual relations. When I break up with someone, I just watch movies for hard breakups from https://breakupangels.com/tag/movies/. These movies are really helpful when it comes to cheering up and getting over the breakup. But I don't search for hookups and nightstands just because my heart is broken as men usually do...

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