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Old May 01, 2021, 06:58 AM
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I do see what you mean and I agree. I broke it off the first time because he hadn’t filed for divorce yet and the second time because he was living in a shelter, and has lied to me about that too. Those are good reasons to end a relationship.

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Old May 01, 2021, 02:36 PM
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I wasn't meaning "should" in a must-do kind of way. Leomama asked what she should do; it's the title of her thread.
What?! You lost me. I wasn't referring to you. I have no idea what you even said.

I am replying to the OP saying there are no prescribed ways to react. The should is mine as I meant there were no rules about how to behave, hence the apostrophes around my use of 'should'. Instead, any decision ought to be based on the OP's personal preference.
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Old May 01, 2021, 02:57 PM
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What?! You lost me. I wasn't referring to you. I have no idea what you even said.

I am replying to the OP saying there are no prescribed ways to react. The should is mine as I meant there were no rules about how to behave, hence the apostrophes around my use of 'should'. Instead, any decision ought to be based on the OP's personal preference.
I see. Sorry I misread. I thought because you responded after me it was inline to respond to me. My mistake. Thank you for clarifying.
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Old May 01, 2021, 08:57 PM
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What?! You lost me. I wasn't referring to you. I have no idea what you even said.

I am replying to the OP saying there are no prescribed ways to react. The should is mine as I meant there were no rules about how to behave, hence the apostrophes around my use of 'should'. Instead, any decision ought to be based on the OP's personal preference.

I deliberately did not use the word should .

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Old May 01, 2021, 10:27 PM
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I deliberately did not use the word should .

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Have you decided what you want to do yet?
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Old May 01, 2021, 10:58 PM
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Have you decided what you want to do yet?

Yeah nothing, I’ve been living with his gifts forever over 2 years. Getting rid of them isn’t going to change anything.

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