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Default Jul 05, 2023 at 08:54 AM
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I feel myself slipping into a deep depression and now I'm realising the reason that is because I'm sick of living with my mum and want to live independently I realize that I have dreams of having a partner and wanting a child. It makes me feel sad because I don't feel independent enough to feel capable of having a healthy relationship with another person and that's getting me down.
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I’d not worry about relationships right now but try to get into some type of employment. Even the most basic one
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Default Jul 05, 2023 at 12:12 PM
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What if you made "living independently" into a goal? Ask yourself what would need to happen for you to live in your own place, have a boyfriend, and a child. These are things that could take a while (long term goals), but working towards them could prove to be a meaningful force in your life. Brainstorm and break it into steps, even.
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