[black-roses]

So it's gotten to the point where I actually want to move out of home I don't see the point in being blamed for her mental illness. I don't see it being a healthy thing anymore and I also realized that she stops me from cooking I'm not even allowed to cook like it's nuts. I'm 27 I'm not physically disabled doing that course I've realized I clean just as well as anyone it just was that it wasn't to mum's standard but that's her problem because they didnt have a problem with me at the hospital. So now I'm starting to think she sprouted some of my insecurities I'm not benefiting her staying there she just uses me as an excuse to blame her problems on me. So it's not helping anyone. I'm going to try and find a place to stay and see if I can go on homestead and get my own house. There's nothing wrong with me I should be able to cook and do things without her telling me that it's not how she would do it. Not everything is about her and from what I see she'd rather just say everything's my fault and that's not gonna change. I'm gonna talk to my counsellor about moving out because I'm not staying with my dad I'm an adult I can move out if I want. That's my choice no one can take that away.

[TheGal]

Good for you... I read your other post about how your mum blames you for everything and I was going to ask whether you have considered moving out.

Hope you find a new place soon.

Keep us posted.