My people pleaser friend lashed out at me for being honest with her today

AzulOscuro · Aug 13, 2023 at 05:05 PM

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Originally Posted by jesyka

Good for you. Therapy never did me any good at all. I wasted thousands of dollars for nothing.

I’m probably a lost cause. I’m certain that I’m going to give up on even trying to talk to people anymore 100%. Maybe even online too.

I’m a failure & most people obviously dislike me & think that I’m weird, crazy & stupid.

The only people who are interested in associating with me are usually selfish user types who only seem to want someone to use as a free therapist, ugh!

I’m not likeable & most people just don’t like me period no matter what I do or don’t do. Even on here people think I’m stupid & weird.

I give up, this is way to hard I’m sick of ‘working’ not getting paid for anything.

Now, you are avoiding.
I could refute each one of the points you brought up in this last post you wrote. You’re not gonna believe me but this is how I see it.
For example; Some people using you as a free psychologist.
I see it the other way around. Some people see you empathic, a person who thinks and is familiar with these issues, especially psychological ones so they tend to find this warmth and comprehension to open them up to you.
Of course, this is a double edged sword, because you need your own space and rest from all this stuff and have fun.

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