Friends :(

I have no real friends in 3D any more, apart from my SO. I have no family either, apart from my father and stepmother in Scotland, who never speak to me. Could someone tell me what is wrong with me?
Thanks,
Fuzzy

There is nothing wrong with you (((((((Fuzzy)))))))) I do not have any true 3D friends either and often wonder the same. I am sorry you don't talk to your family in Scotland.

I myself feel for me it is at times too difficult for me to have real friends in 3D due to my past friendships and trust issues, that is why I am so thankful for my friends here.

I am glad you have SO to talk to, and just want you to know I think you are a very nice person and thanks for your help with my problem and worry the other day!

(((Hugs)))) Chris

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~KRIS~

If you think you have totally gave up, you haven't, because you are here!

I agree with Ozzie.......they don't know what a loss it is to not have you as a friend.

I consider it an honour when I get those "bear" hugs and you remember things that others forget. So, thank you Fuzzy, for being my friend.


Courage is fear that has said its prayers.
Dorothy Bernard

I feel you pain. There are some days when my heart aches for a friend. This afternoon at work I picked up the phone but realized I had no one to call. Did you ever feel like just talking with someone? I went to call my mom but realized she's out of town and I just stared at the phone. I would love if someone picked up the phone and said, Hi, how are you doing. Why don't you come on and stop by? I've done that a few times before, but guess what, the busy excuses start and then they never call back.

So don't feel alone. Reading this message board, it seems like a lot of people don't have any friends. It's sad because some people have so many friends and are always surrounded by people, and I think, what do they do that I don't? Can't figureit out, still.

Nothing is wrong with you, Fuzzy, perhaps you haven't met anyone that appreciates you as you.
I have no real friends either in the 3D world, no one would believe I get social phobic, which limits my opportunity for friendship I guess, but here I feel comfortable to talk to others.
Fuzzy, believe me if you are the same in the 3D world as here, then any 3D friend or possible friend or even past, do not know what they are missing out on.
((((((((((((((( Dear Bear )))))))))))))))

DE

In giving advice seek to help, not please your friend
SOLON

Sweet bear:

You probably know we share this feeling that's hitting on you right now...
It's so weird outside, I guess... I can't tell anymore how much of my absolute loneliness is provoked by my own attitude and lack of trust in everyone else and how much is just a reflex of a world that's tougher every day. Where competition is so valuable and love is frowned upon... But I want to find out!

We're not so alone here, are we?

love
peace :-)

Fuzzy,
I understand what you are going through. I have not had "friends" since before I started high school. It seems like every group of people that I associate myself with ends up ditching out on me or stabbing me in the back.
I know depression makes it so hard for me sometimes. Just being around people is tough..and when they get mad at me or reject me I just shut down and do not want to be around anyone in RL anymore.
My friends are here...and they are there for me as I am there for them. I guess that is all that is important.

Jessica

"Take these chances. Place them in a box until a quieter time..." ~DMB

Fuzzybear! You are loving, loved and lovable here on these boards, you have to be a real catch for someone looking for a friend.

I could be very wrong (happens all the time), but sometimes I think the problem that leaves people like you feeling lonely out in the real world, is that there are not enough people who really WANT true friends any more. They definitely still exist, but they are miles apart and they never meet. Well, these days, a person looking for a true friend could be three floors down in a high-rise and you would never meet them.

I have met a lot of people who have invited me to be "friends", but what they really want is someone to participate in a b**ch session about a co-worker, the boss, a neighbor, whatever. The personality of the new "friend" doesn't matter, they just have to listen and either chime in or keep quiet. Sticking up for the target of the gossip, no matter how cheerfully, is not "friendly". It kind of makes me feel like they don't see me as a real person, much less a real friend.

I would rather be alone a lot than be used like that. And I bet you feel the same way. I am so sorry you feel alone right now, but being true to yourself and waiting to meet a person with a good heart just like your own, will be worth the wait. People like that can't ALL be on this board, miles and miles from you. There have to be some where you live, and they are probably lonely and hoping to meet you, too.