[eresh]

what to do??????????
you never really know if you are making the right choice. I come from an mentally abusive relationship, which took me about 10 years to go over it. Know I met someone 5 years younger. Seems nice, likes my daughter, but.... he apears to be calm but last time he shouted and transformed, he is kind of machism way of thinking,mediocre like accepting what he has, sometimes too absorbent.wants children know i don't many issues.... tells me that no so many men accept women with big children
what to do? accept him the way he is?
i don't want to suffer again

<div class="foot">(Edited by eresh on 08/31/04 00:51 AM.)</div>

[shakes]

Eresh,
Please do not take what this man is saying. It sounds like the beginning of him trying to get you into a relationship with him by manipulation and control. If a man really cares/wants to be with you it would not matter if your kids were older or not. IMHO it sounds like he is trying to get you to believe that if you do not stay with him no one else will like you.
Please think twice about continuing with this man and seek out resources in your area.

Jessica

"Take these chances. Place them in a box until a quieter time..." ~DMB

[eresh]

hi Jessica thanks for your advice. i really appreciate it and will definitely think about it.
thanks again

[candlelight]

the red flags are present follow your gut feeling.

you deserve love and peace, acceptance and joy in your relationships.

[Wants2Fly]

I agree with the "red flags" post. That you find yourself concerned enough to post here about this shows your inner warning system in up. Good luck with this.