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I'm really hating my step-mom soooooo much right now I really wish I could be with my real mom today instead of her. </font>

[sidony]

I'm so sorry Kaika, that really sucks. I hope you can at least call your mom and talk to her.

sidony

<font color="purple">Thanks, I did get the chance to call my mom today, but she didn't answer so I just left a voice mail. </font>

[AngelFish]

I know how you feel. Plus, my stepchildren have said the same thing to me...

and deep down, I would much rather be with my real children instead of them (if I could have them.)

<font color="purple">it isn't really a question od step vs biological for me, because I perfer time spent with my step dad to be honest (though i feel a little guilty saying that) it's just that although you can tell she is a very nice and sweet woman, there are just a few things about her that really hurt me/rub me the wrong way:

- opisite personality types: she's a very high strung person IMO. I'm just a very laid-back, easy going kind of person. The world wont end if you take your time, the world wont end if you're 5 minutes late (unless it's for work or school but that's a different thing entirely in my book) if something inconvient happens, just laugh a little shrug it off, say "oh well" and then move on/start over.

- she's more insecure and sensitive then ME: and trust me, that is certainly a feat. It's getting to the point were it's like "Geez, just take the compliment already!" or even better- "How many times do I have to say 'it's okay' or 'I love you' be fore you get it?!?" I'd be able to give you all plenty more examples, but that'd just be upsetting.

- She's just hard to please: it feels like whatever isn't her way of doing things is critisized until you just give in and do whatever she wants.

- Whenever she's cooking something she's totaly mean. Infact the reason I started this thread was because she exploded on me for both a.) getting a drink "too slowly" and b.) using a new bottle of tea because I couldn't see the old one in the back of the fridge.

And well, being a sensitive person such as myself, that's just was too much anger and stress to take in at once so I came in here, made the thread, and have been crying on and off. It's so little but man does it hurt when you're hyper-sensitive.</font>

[MyBestKids2]

Sorry (((Kaika)) you had such a disappointing day. Keeping you close in my thoughts and wishing peace

[crazybones]

yeah that is sad i have kinda same but different situation not step mom but step dad my mom has been with this guy since i was 10 yrs old i am now 17 1/2 any way ok he was nice at first but over years he has changed anger has taken over if something is not done right by that i mean if not done his way he snaps if you dont listen he hits thinking he is on top of the world like he is the king he is never happy i understand why i mean my mom has cheated on him many of times but yet he is still here only cuz he has kids with my mom it is COMPLICATED with things like this I UNDERSTAND COMPLETELY i wish you the best of luck maybe some day will change and be nicer to you