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Old May 14, 2008, 11:13 PM
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is it okay to be in a serious relationship and be crushed on someone else. i feel so silly but i guy i work with, ugh, i have a crush on him. not even attractive, he's really dumb so i dont even think he notices that i try to flirt a little with him to see if he likes me back in anyway. maybe my relationship has gotten a little dull? i don't know. you guys tell me your opinion.

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Old May 14, 2008, 11:20 PM
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I've been in similar situations before, I always thought it was okay to have a crush just as long as it doesn't become more serious. Good luck
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Old May 15, 2008, 10:28 PM
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oh well, wouldn't even be able to let it get serious. work with the other person, and just too nervous to begin to even start to open up on more than a surface level
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Old May 16, 2008, 02:00 AM
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Theres nothing wrong with looking StargazerLily
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Old May 16, 2008, 09:56 AM
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Only you can answer that question hun... if u think your relationship is getting a little dull, why not give a little effort to make it better again?

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