[inkblot]

OMG, I can't believe this! That cop I posted about recently a few times--the one who gave me the wheeled luggage set--with lace panties from Victoria's Secret inside--I've got his personal email and he'd like to have me over to his place for dinner sometime!

I noticed before that he had my cell number saved into his own phone. I'd sent him a couple of emails to his work address about my issues with police from my phone, so he got the phone number from that. He mentioned that he'd thought about calling me one night but he didn't know how late I stay up.

I only see him as a cop or a friend. I don't know how to respond to all of his "friendship". I have PTSD that complicates things--which he knows about. Help, please?! Any comments, words, and opinions are appreciated! Thanks!

[wanttoheal]

I don't think I'd go to his house alone, that's for sure. Keep safe Ink. We care about you.

[eskielover]

I'm with wanttoheal on this one also......I would never go some place alone with someone I didn't know at all (& you really don't know this guy at all). He may be a good guy with good intentions....if that's the case, they he will be completely understanding of how you feel about being put into a situation like that.

If he wants to have dinner with you,,,,,have him take you out to a restaurant.....but never never go to his house alone......that would only be asking for trouble & even if it doesn't.....it's just not a good idea for him either.

Keep the friendship in a public place......then if you get to know each other better before ever going alone to his house. If his intentions were good, he would have asked you for your phone # even if he already had it....that way he would know that you want him to have it.

Just too many red flags going on initially......but then again, I am always overly cautious.....but it has always been to my safety.....the one time I wasn't......I realized it was a huge mistake....luckily, it turned out ok.....but it wasn't a good situation.

Be safe not sorry,
Debbie

[inkblot]

I know. Even if he is a cop.

[bebop]

don't go hon. like everyone said. go out to dinner. you can't trust even a cop at first. keep it friendly til you get to know him better.

[complic8d]

I've got to agree with everyone else, don't put yourself in a risky situation. Take care.

[CedarS]

Tell him he can take you out for lunch sometime if you want. I think meeting in public places for awhile is the best way to go.

[iamtwilight]

"you can't trust a man with a gun at all"

heheh i'm afraid of cops. but here's loads of good advice. and since you just see him as afriend or a cop, going over to his house may mean more than "friend" to him.

and it's also freaky that he already had your number without asking for it.

i'm overly cautious too, but i think that's a good thing.

good luck!

[inkblot]

Not to mention the lace underwear from Victoria's Secret I got from him too!