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Old Sep 07, 2008, 03:01 PM
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i'm in a really good relationship with my boyfriend, and have been for half a year now.
we are great for each other and he supports my decisions really well as do i for him...but elders (parents and friends parents) have said that maybe its too much of a grown up relationship for such a young couple...i love him with all my heart and he basically helped me with my dad for a while and my SI...so thats great, but i just can't help wonder sometimes maybe they are right?

please help me

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Old Sep 10, 2008, 02:39 PM
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I am in a steady relationship, and I have been for 9 and a half months. I know what ou mean by wondering if they're right but if you're serious about this guy you should ignore them. All you can do is prove them wrong
Amy
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Old Sep 14, 2008, 02:13 AM
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Hi there,

i can only assume that the 'elders' reaction is only out of love for you and wanting to protect you from getting hurt. It sounds as if its all going well for now. Good luck to you and I hope it continues that way. If you have found someone who loves you and will stand by you thick and thin - no matter how young or how old you are....treasure this as something special.

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Meggles

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Old Sep 16, 2008, 09:29 AM
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Hi, I've been on a relationship for 8 months now and we've made serious decisions already. The elders' reaction are usual and normal. But you should decide on your own. Nobody can really tell if they are right. But what if they are wrong? Just know what you are doing and be confident with it. Good luck to you.
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