I didn't want to highjack the other thread... yet... still want information.. thoughts..

I have never been "enough" for anyone.. my mom, my dad, my sister... well anyone..

I think... it is hard.. to be "enough".. to form those self-values.. when you are totally isolated... perhaps I am wrong...when no one loves you.. when you have no child that loves you undconditionally..

when you have totally.. and completely.. nothing.. and no one in your life..

am I wrong??

[cantstopcrying]

(((((((((freewill)))))))) I too always feel as if I'm not "enough"--not good enough, not pretty enough, not rich enough, not thin enough, not not not. I know all the right advice--I do. I just can't do it because I don't believe it. Self-talk doesn't cut it with me--tell myself I'm good enough because I am. No, if I was, I wouldn't have two ex-husbands, have just ended a 9 year relationship and then this current garbage. If I was good enough. I'm sorry I don't have any words of wisdom to offer you on how to do it, how to believe it. I will be curious to hear any advice, too, though.