[Manda83]

Alright me n this girl have been friends since November of 06. We became so close that we were like sisters honestly. Well, I don't know what to do Saturday afternoon she ran away while her mom was at work *she was with 3 other friends* she claims that they didn't have no gas to bring her home, but I'm finding that hard to trust her because they were out that day at the store and went to get movies so yea. But anyways, her mom calls me and talks to me about what she's done at home and when she took off and never told her mom *left a note that said I'll call when I get a chance* which means to my friend never ok when she's with this group of friend's and I'm to my ends~wit with her I don't trust her anymore. She's done this to her mom more than once and she doesn't help her mom or anything around the house and even when she leaves a note she doesn't do it and recently her mom lost the man she loved with all her heart and soul which was her companion and since then she's been making her mom her ***** and her mom also told me she hasn't even cleaned her bedroom in like 10 year's since the last time the vacum was ran in there also. I'm not sure what to do I don't trust her anymore... I lost my trust since she's done this to me, her mom more than anything so yea she's threatened to leave, but I guess her mom and her came to senses and she's not leaving now and all that which I'm thankful it just doesn't stop the pain she put me in since I lost my trust, my best friend and everything else and I told her to grow the **** up too.
Please everyone what am I suppose to do about this.
Thanks

[Cherreen]

Hello,

I ended a pretty long friendship myself two years ago. My friend and I became good friends our junior year and high school and we both went to the same college and were even roommates. At the end of the second semester of our sophomore year, I moved out of our apartment and into a new one because after having lived with her for one and a half years, I realized that she wasn't the person I thought she was. Sometimes you just have to do what you know is right, regardless of how much it hurts to do it. I know that you were probably good friends with this girl, but one of the many bonds that holds a frienship together is trust. And since you lost that sense of trust, you may find it easy to lose other things as well, such as respect and compassion. What you need to do is just sit down with her and talk about how you feel and go from there. I hope this helps and I wish you the best.

[SeptemberMorn]

{{{{{{{{{{{{{{{Manda}}}}}}}}}}}}}}}}}} I'm so sorry. I know how you feel. I've had to end a friendship just recently. It's not easy, it hurts, but you need to be true to yourself no matter what.

Cherreen is right. Listen to her.

[luvdogs]

Originally Posted by Manda83

Alright me n this girl have been friends since November of 06. We became so close that we were like sisters honestly. Well, I don't know what to do Saturday afternoon she ran away while her mom was at work *she was with 3 other friends* she claims that they didn't have no gas to bring her home, but I'm finding that hard to trust her because they were out that day at the store and went to get movies so yea. But anyways, her mom calls me and talks to me about what she's done at home and when she took off and never told her mom *left a note that said I'll call when I get a chance* which means to my friend never ok when she's with this group of friend's and I'm to my ends~wit with her I don't trust her anymore. She's done this to her mom more than once and she doesn't help her mom or anything around the house and even when she leaves a note she doesn't do it and recently her mom lost the man she loved with all her heart and soul which was her companion and since then she's been making her mom her ***** and her mom also told me she hasn't even cleaned her bedroom in like 10 year's since the last time the vacum was ran in there also. I'm not sure what to do I don't trust her anymore... I lost my trust since she's done this to me, her mom more than anything so yea she's threatened to leave, but I guess her mom and her came to senses and she's not leaving now and all that which I'm thankful it just doesn't stop the pain she put me in since I lost my trust, my best friend and everything else and I told her to grow the **** up too.
Please everyone what am I suppose to do about this.
Thanks

aww geez--been thru it too many times,and frankly it sucks.i have been betrayed by friends,too.i'm sorry,esp since you put so much of your emotions,love,and caring into the friendship.it sounds like she's kinda messed up,tho--good for you telling her to grow the **** up.she needs to hear that.try not to let it get to you,i know,that's hard,cause stuff gets to me too,and i'm almost 50 !! as a teenager,i was always so loyal and faithful to my friends,(now,too) but they didn't seem to feel the same towards me.i remember those feelings of betrayal and hurt as if it were yesterday.i helped a friend run away once,let her eat and shower at my mom's house.she was 14,i was 16,i even lied to the police for her !! but,sadly,the loyalty was not reciprocated,and she wasn't there for me when i needed her.and,yeah,it hurt like hell.it will pass,though.....wish i could i fix it for you,but here's a .

[Manda83]

Thanks guys for the advice I really do appreciate it a lot and now I finally realize who my true friends really are.
Thanks Cherreen, SeptemberMorn, LuvDogs I appreciate it alot!
Thanks again

[Beth26]

It is hard to let go of a friend, but you know if that friend is right for you in a specific time in your life, that friend could bring you down or lift your spirits..look inside your heart can you live without this friend forever?

[Manda83]

Thanks Beth I see what you're saying so I'll have to do some soulsearching in my heart to see what is best and what I want to do about it.