[AshesOfLove]

Recently, I was dumped by my so called boyfriend for another woman. The day he broke up with me there was some feeling about it. I did mean it when I typed " so called boyfriend". He didn't see it the same way as I did. He used me for sex and didn't want me for anything eles. what should I do now? At first I was upset, now i'm numb about it. no feeling at all. (except my brused ego and a reoccuring thought that I'm not good enough for anyone)

[myoasis89]

He was just a stupid guy....that's all you can think of it as...most guys mature later than women and are only in search of sex...believe me, you are worth it...don't let this guy get you down. I know it's not easy...but you deserve to be treated with more respect than this. I guess it's time to move on with your life...and to learn from this experience...maybe learn what kind of guys to avoid and which ones are more reliable. I'm sorry this happened to you, but a lot of people experience being dumped in life...it's a painful experience to endure but it does not mean that you are not worth it. There are plenty of fish in the sea, as the saying goes, and he obviously was not the one for you. Believe in yourself and believe that you deserve love. We are all here for you on Psych central...feel better and I hoped this helped to make you realise you deserve better

[valexand]

Erase him from your system. He wasn't worth your time!! He is not even worth the smallest space among your thoughts.
Everybody, let me tell you...EVERYBODY and especially women have gone through this. You are so NOT alone on this one.
Focus on yourself, improve yourself the way you chose to (e.g. work out) and build up your confidence. You know....he might just did you a favor by leaving your life. Who wants a snake like that in their house?

Good luck.