[CJR520]

My husband spent the last two and one half years going through male mid-life crisis. It was tough on us both. Although he never had sex with another woman, he let himself wander in his mind, and I'm sure, was flirting at work. He works in a factory, and the two troublesome girls work in the office. In their forties, I'm sure they saw a meal ticket, as they are both divorced. My hubby has always been a keep his hands to himself type guy, and when I saw him holding hands with the one girl at a party, and then dancing with her, then walking away holding hands, I saw a big red light. I questioned him, and he was livid with anger toward me. He told me she was his best friend, and that stabbed me right in the heart. So, this year, at his company Christmas party, the second skank, who is an alcoholic, has lost her children because of it, and always has her hands all over all of the men, has had sexual relations at work with at least one guy, and has turned in more than one man there for sexual harrassment, comes over to our table. She trys to hug me, and I push her away. Then, she goes to my husband and is hugging him, then kisses him. I'm not very good at handling these things because I just don't know what to say. She has a bottle of beer in her hand all the time and is just plain obnoxious. I do believe it embarrassed him, but he needs to handle this, I feel, and tell her to keep her hands to herself. I'm just venting, but I think this is just wrong, and the company should tell her to behave herself, or just dismiss her. It makes me sick inside, and I don't want to go to any more parties. I've had enough!! This is three functions in a row that I have had to deal with these two women.

[soulmate93]

I know how frustrating it can be to have women like that around your husband, it can make you crazy. I just want to say be careful and keep your eyes open. If your husband has been going through a mid life crisis, he may be putting himself in situations that could be potentially harmful to your relationship, and he could do things that are typically out of his character. And with women like that around it's doubly concerning.
I've been there, done that, and am now divorced over it. I'd hate to see anyone go through the same thing.

[selfy]

i know other women are the worst in the world when they cant keep their hands off your man.
my partners ex has an issue with that, she cant seem to stand the idea that he has a proper girlfriend now, and she screwed up.
she spent ages texting him, phoning him, using endearing words and putting kisses at the end.
my poor bf had no idea who it was, and just reacted like he does.
i had told him, that i was uncomfy with it. and to be honest so was he. but some men just dont know how to put up a line for people to toe. and he had been through much already with the silly cow he just accepted everything.
i put a stop to it when i asked tom to get his act together and say what he wanted to rather than what was polite. (he told her to fk off)
i have to say im possibly rather protective over tom, to a slightly worrying extent. but i find sometimes you have to state a claim. i think its something you prolly want to talk to your hubby about. as he is the one who is targeted here, and regardless of wether he wants other female attention or not, if your not happy with the way things are going, things have to be laid out and set straight.
on the other note, these women do indeed, sound like skanks.
i suggest you talk to your hubby, but do not get pulled into catfights with the women, as it ends nowhere and you get into trouble (but you prolly knew all this anyway)
i wish you good luck with that one. its surprisingly stressful to have women imposing on your relationship.

[CJR520]

Thanks for the input, both of you! I think he already knows that this girl embarrassed me big time, and other wives commented to me about it, and how she was also hanging around other married men and having her hands on them. So, it is her, but I think the company has a duty to stop her or fire her. I would if it were my place!