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Dec 21, 2008, 07:21 PM
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well were to begin me gf found her real mom after 17 yrs of not knowing her anyhow it put alot of stress on her cuz for obviouse reasons its her real mom but alot of stress on me she doesnt have time to talk to me as much its like we keep growing farther apart from each other day by day its been this way for a while he h/e doesnt see it this as we are though i am happy for her and all but i am worried alot that she will forget about me and will have no more time for me in her life anymore i have been thinking if we should breakup that way she will have more time for mom cuz i feel like i am taking up to much of her time and i feel real bad i try to tell her this is how i feel but she always say we work it out and i no gona leave her i mean i dont want to but i also dont want to be a bother or a time stealer i figure she should just move oon i been telling her this for a while i be fine i has been single b4 an sure it will happen again but she doesnt want me to leave h/e i cant keep going like this i am kinda a anntention seeker always have since me real dad has been gone my life has been hell i dnk wht else to do i think leting her go is best for her so i dont waste her time with my pidlly b.s and all she needs her mom more then me i dont want to leave an dont want her to leave but wht other choice we has u know i am all out of ideas ANY suggestions would be helpful you know the saying ( IF YOU LOVE SOMEONE LET THEM GO ) thats what i think i should do maybe it be best 4 both of us
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Dec 21, 2008, 07:34 PM
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hi czbones, sounds like you have mixed emotions going on. i found my son after losing him for 30+ years. from experience i don't think your girlfriend would be happier if you left her. why? cuz just because she's found her mom doesn't mean she wants to shut out the other ones in her life. my son has an adoptive family and there's no way i'd have wanted him to shut out people who loved him too. when he and i found each other he had a girlfriend. she actually came down with him to sc from manhatten, ny to visit me too.
so it goes both ways, meaning the more loving people in our lives the richer our life is. i'm sure your gf feels the same way. losing you would be like finding someone you lost-her mom- to lose someone special in your life...you!, IMHO.  i hope this helps you sort out your conflictIing thoughts.
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Dec 21, 2008, 08:20 PM
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yeah i guess ur right i just dont know if she will have time to be with me nymore i just a big worry wart i guess thanks
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