Divorce and Anniversary all wrapped into one!

My wedding anniversary is tomorrow, but yesterday my husband told me he wanted a divorce. I don't know what to do. This is my second marriage. My first one I had to leave for safty issues after only two years and a month. Here I am at my two month with husband number two and he wants a divorce. If it weren't for my daughter I don't think I could make it through this but I'm barely hanging in there as it is. I wanted to go and get counsling but he won't do it and I don't know if me going would do anything any way. He has been depressed since he got home from the army. He doesn't see it so he won't get help. I don't know what to do and I see that this is turning into a ramble. If you have any advice I would love to hear it. I have no where to go and I work only part time. I can't afford a divorce. So if you have any help please post it.