[Zukana]

Hey, for a while now i've been feeling as if my bf has changed around me, we used to be so close.. but i know i got a bit clingy and i believe i drove him off a but.. im scared im going to lose him and just this weekend he asked me for a brake our conversation was a bit like this:
Him : What would you do if i asked for a brake?
Me: I dont know id probably just not know what to say.
witht he expretion on his face i knew where this was leading..
Me: are you asking for a brake?
Him: *Nods*
I burst out crying so he hugged me, then he told me he still loves just needs some time to see it.

The thing is, the day before he was talking to my friend and she told me everything.. He had been thinking of dumping me.. he doesnt feel the warmth he did for the first 6 months of going out.. we have been together for 8 months now..

on the night he told me he also told me not to go home he wanted me to stay over.. so i thought it may mean something.. he also told me he will still talk to me online, but he never does talk to me online.. unless its about one his browser games that i pretend to be interested in so we can have a conversation about something. I tried to get him to tell me what was wrong the other day. but he just wont talk to me, he said.. i talk to people i hardly know about my problems.. this kind of hurt me.. knowing he wont talk to me about his problems. And i dont know how to get a responce out of him, for a while now we seem to keep getting on each others nerves

but out of all this, i love him so much, and im scared im going to lose him, i just dont know what to do

[SandiSandles]

You need to give him his space. It's going to be very hard to do, but he needs to think. Go out with friends, live your life and let him do his thinking. If you show him you can live without him he might just not like that idea and come back begging. Who knows. If he doesn't then it wasn't meant to be. Good Luck.