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Jan 07, 2009, 04:24 PM
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 Today is the worst day of my life. I've never had a boyfriend, I've been trying to find one for years since I've been in high school, but every time I see a guy I like I get rejected.. One day my office had to close down and our staff including myself had to be tranferred to a different office where I met this guy who's now my co-worker. We've been hitting it off and we started dating. We've been dating for 5yrs (5 wasted years..)and I thought something should soon happen between us , until one evening before New Years Eve he told me the most shocking news.. He told me he's gay. Now I'm so devastated.. He tried to call me the other day but I didn't answer the phone.. Now I want nothing more to do with him because he broke my heart.  He should have told me something like this a long time ago. Now I have nobody.. My closest friends back stab me years ago, my family doesn't give a crap about me.. Now I feel I falling in a bottomless pit, HELP ME... 
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Jan 08, 2009, 05:19 PM
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NOBODY'S RESPONDING, DOES ANYONE CARE!!
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Jan 10, 2009, 04:36 AM
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I care and I'm really sorry this happened...it's difficult when you are on your own...I grew up an only child and I find it difficult froming relationships in general...that's why I resorted to online dating...that's where I met my bf whom i care for very much....I know it's difficult...but maybe learn from the situation...what did you like about him...what did he do that made you feel special...now you know what kind of guy you want. he must have cared for you in someway...even if it wasn't what you wanted...keep trying it will come over time...everyone has something about them which is loveable...you just need to find that....do you find that you are just really shy around guys? pm me anytime
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Jan 10, 2009, 07:25 PM
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I have also fallen for gay guys. It really sucks. At least he told you-I take it he knew how you felt about him if you were dating for so many years. That was very unfair of him. Some gay guys REALLY don't realize they're gay until years into hetero relationships. Not saying it's OK, just that it does happen. I'd listen to the other poster-use this as a learning experience about yourself. Get to know what you do&don't want&what your expectations are&don't be afraid to state them up front the next time you date someone. There are a lot of us out here that can tell you what we don't like, but not about what we do like until something negative happens to us&we're hurt. You will find someone who is meant just for you-it takes time, which is hard, but necessary. I'm 40&thought I knew what I wanted&thought that I had it&have now realized that I don't know what I want&know that I don't have what I thought I did. You'll have better luck in the future. Remember that you shouldn't take just whatever comes your way-pick what you want&don't stop looking until you find it.
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