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Nov 23, 2008, 02:50 PM
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Where is the love? How can a person find her/his true love?
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Nov 23, 2008, 03:50 PM
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Wow...big question injaga,,at least the first one....
Best I can do with that one is share my opinion...it is everywhere...I see the world of feelings in kind of a bipolar way...there is Love and there is Fear,,,with hundreds of adjectives to describe aspects of each...For me,,as an example,,anger is Fear and Forgiveness is Love... Your second question is easier...at least for me... Did a bee ever land on you?...Probably. Did you ever catch one in mid air? Probably not. The bee found you...you might have smelled nice... But trying to catch a bee in flight with your bare hands is foolish and often comes with a price.. That's how I see finding your true Love.. Stay busy with living...it will land upon you... IMHO. Lenny
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Nov 24, 2008, 12:03 PM
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Love yourself and love will find you. That's my experience anyway.
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Jan 11, 2009, 01:57 PM
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My thoughts are that most of us need to do a lot of work on ourselves like get rid of old resentments, past anger, forgive those who have hurt us and then learn a new mindset.
We need to learn to love ourselves first. If there is something we don't like about ourselves, work at changing those things. Once you are happy with who you are, or reasonably so, you will attract the kind of people that will love you in return.
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Jan 11, 2009, 06:09 PM
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In my experience, it finds you just when you stop looking for it.
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Jan 14, 2009, 04:45 PM
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I agree with everyone. For me I went through alot of losers before I found the one person who literally saved my life. I was single for a long time but while I was alone, I learned a little bit about myself. As soon as I stopped looking so hard I found him. It's like my favorite saying: a watched pot never boils...lol
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