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Jan 29, 2009, 11:53 PM
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After being cheated on 3 times I kinda don't trust ppl as easy
And when getting in a new relationship I don't take it too seriously bc of that. So now with this new guy pleading w/ me to give him his chance its getting hard. How can I trust him and build something..when the past haunts me nd reminds me of the pervious screw ups.. Sigh |
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Jan 31, 2009, 03:19 PM
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I am running into that very problem right now....the new girl reminds me SOO much of my soon to be ex wife it isnt funny....both the good and bad. Not so much the bad but more so the good. She knows that my exwife cheated on me 3 times with 2 guys. It's hard to let somebody in when its been ripped to shreds.
What I did was tell the new girl what would make me feel better and that is what makes a difference between the two...One wants to wash my fears away and the other made them a reality. I told both of them what I wanted to make me feel better....both of them said they were gonna take care of my fears....but only one was sincere. |
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