[DontSayIt]

I posted here maybe a month ago. I was able to get some feedback on what was going on with my boyfriend. Unfortunately, he lost it again. It was worse this time and I know I have to leave. I don't feel like I should tell him that I'm leaving because I don't know that he won't go psycho. I think I just have to leave when he isn't home and explain that I moved out on my own to people without bad mouthing him. I think he has enough problems and doesn't need a bad reputation. I don't wish him harm, but I cannot be with him or around him in any capacity.

What do you all think? Is that a good idea? Any suggestions?

Thanks

[onlymedid]

Well, I think if he loses it easily, then leaving when he is not there is for the best. I would even have someone with you, in case he came home while you are there packing!
My hubby up and left me once with no note or anything and it broke my heart and I was SO worried that he hurt himself or something. I had no idea where he was or what was going on! I had lost it on him a couple of times, pushing him to feel that was the only way for him to get away.

The best suggestion I have on that is that you leave a note saying something like you couldn't face him or something....don't just leave him hanging.

[AAAAA]

Leaving when he's not home is probably the best idea. Leave him a note that you don't wish him any ill-will you just need to be with your family right now.