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Old Oct 12, 2013, 09:24 AM
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I like this girl .. I met on some social networking site .. Sometimes we talk with each other .. sometimes she flirts I am not sure she does .. but she is very open .. I really want to know if she likes me or not .. How to know that ?

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Old Oct 12, 2013, 09:35 AM
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i'd wait for some obvious signs... lots of affection, gifts, wanting to spend more and more time with you, stuff like that

that's a start anyway
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Old Oct 12, 2013, 10:13 AM
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Liking someone and loving someone is two different things. I mean you can like a person and be attracted to them, but sometimes you think you love someone but really you just are infatuated by them. This is a short term admiration of the person, but it can have some similiar feelings to love. If a person loves you, they won't just tell you but they'll show you how much they love you.
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Old Oct 12, 2013, 10:19 AM
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If you have never met face to face, it is just attraction. If you have actually been around her then...?? Not sure how old you are but it really takes a life time to know someone. REALLY know them. Not sure if that helps or not, just be careful with the internet thing
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Old Oct 12, 2013, 10:20 AM
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Or even better, ask her out, if you live close enough to do so.....
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Old Oct 12, 2013, 10:21 AM
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I really want to know if she likes me or not .. How to know that ?
I think you have to ask her, talk about it. If she is talking with you, flirting with you, etc. then she obviously likes you or she would not spend the time doing that with you, she would pick someone else?
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Old Oct 12, 2013, 03:10 PM
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'o.O Sounds like nowhere near love, but it could well be that she has a thing for you. Best of luck!
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Old Oct 12, 2013, 03:17 PM
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I heard Jerry Seinfeld in "Comedians in Cars getting a cup of coffee" this week and he said you know someone really loves you when they become your cheerleader. He's right. When someone is selfless enough to put you ahead of themself that's real love.
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Old Oct 12, 2013, 04:40 PM
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I like this girl .. I met on some social networking site .. Sometimes we talk with each other .. sometimes she flirts I am not sure she does .. but she is very open .. I really want to know if she likes me or not .. How to know that ?
Since the thread title and the post are asking two different things, I am curious, as far as taking things further with her, in the notion of exploring a romantic relationship, is it more important, to you, to know if she likes you or loves you before proceeding?
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Old Oct 12, 2013, 04:49 PM
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What cool said....

And (of course) it can take a looooooong time before love even comes into the picture....real love is shown in so many ways and takes on many appearances and strengthens and deepens with time....most people mistake chemical attraction for love...but love is a very complex thing.

Just enjoy getting to know one another, then see where things lead!
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Old Oct 13, 2013, 06:41 AM
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meet for coffee or something like that during the day see how things go , I agree about infatuations , sometimes your idea of what she is and what she really is when you meet may be 2 different things Good Luck...
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Old Oct 13, 2013, 11:20 AM
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Off-topic - It's sad and horribly ironic that values and morals (the golden rule, respect, unselfishness, sharing, etc.) that we're first taught when we begin to understand are things that come undone and aren't practiced among lots of adults and love goes out the window. It's true that the most important things that you need to know is what you learned in Kindergarten.
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Old Oct 13, 2013, 11:25 AM
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Ask her!
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Old Oct 14, 2013, 10:07 AM
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If you have never met face to face, it is just attraction. If you have actually been around her then...?? Not sure how old you are but it really takes a life time to know someone. REALLY know them. Not sure if that helps or not, just be careful with the internet thing
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Old Oct 14, 2013, 10:10 AM
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I have seen her but havent met her .. I had her on my mind but never knew whts in her mind ..
but during this summer we had a chat and she said .. I like you .. thats why I talk to you .. n I agree that I like you in a weird way ..
I dont know whts that weird way .. lol .

but during summer I visitd her place cause I had some work .. and she recharged my cell with 500 bucks .. when I dint even asked her .. when I asked .. she said its a gift from her ..
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Old Oct 14, 2013, 10:15 AM
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'o.O Sounds like nowhere near love, but it could well be that she has a thing for you. Best of luck!
what do you mean she has a thing for me ... please elaborate !
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