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Old Apr 19, 2009, 08:15 PM
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For me, I feel more comfortable around guys...I don't feel as though they will be catty or treat me like I'm weird for the interests I have...Am I the only girl out there who is afraid of women. I'm not into talking about my feelings unless I know I am really safe...and usually guys are the only ones I can open up to. I guess I feel as though i am always saying the wrong thing...with guys, I can say anything and they will think i am funny and cool...girls think i'm weird...I can only be myself around guys....I am not a lesbian...I have a bf and I am only sexually attracted to guys...but as soon as a gril tries to get close to me...i push them away....what is wrong with me
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Old Apr 20, 2009, 04:30 AM
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Maybe you feel intimidated. Maybe you feel competition. Maybe you like feeling "special" as being the only girl among your guy friends that probably give you attention.
I also used to hang out with only guys. I used to think that girls just didn't like me or that they were jealous of me. Truth was that I was full of myself. This was wrong of me. I missed out on the girlfriend relationship and you know what....some of the girls I met later in life have been with me through thick and thin.
All the guy friends you have now will vanish little by little as they too get girlfriends. The girls that make an attempt to be your friend probably think of you as stuck-up because you think you're a better person than them....cause in your mindset they are just catty, gossiping, jealous girls. You know what I've discovered? Men are worse gossipers than women!!!!
Give EVERYBODY an EQUAL chance to be a friend to you.
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