Sincew parents died, brothers have been meana never call return calls
send a card = I sincerely tried to make it right
brother emailed yesterday and said he and hiw wife were sorry I was not there - graveside services of a neigh bor and relative of mine growing up
Then he said they are having cookout for mu aune fromCA and having family andhe wants to be there- theyhave been so mean - even when my mom was dying- they were sending emails asking me for money and his wife was yelling at me all the time-
I put auto filter on email so I don't get hers
He told me to call this week
I won't - it causes me to shake and get nervous
If i went- I won't - she will say I am mean to her again
I have detached from them for survival
and he is no longer Executor so that could be a problem
I see T in 2 days- but need to get it out

[eskielover]

There is no reason to subject yourself to mean people even if they are brothers. They are no different than anyother people in this world, & if they don't choose to treat you with respect, they I wouldn't bother going near them.

Sounds to me like you are doing a good job of taking care of yourself by staying away from your brother & his wife.

Keep taking care of yourself & don't doubt your being right in the way you are handling this.

Debbie