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I have been dumped out of nowhere by "friends"
On friend running a walking club was freinds and I confided alot until this weekend when she told me she was going to the walk of a different day then on the calendar with her friend and she call sometime- i dropped out then anothe group dumped me - i was always at the night socials and brough food and tonic- then they said you can' come to xmas party - and maybe you should another group because we are just going to have lunches- I don't want to go even if I could So sad and beaten- what should Ido |
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become independent......then they will wish they followed you
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This has happened to me before, and then when they saw me happy going on my own life and having very good friends around me, they tried their best to get back to me...but I didn't.... These are not true friends...true friends won't do such a thing! take care of yourself Marjan |
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Hi Sunshine
![]() First, I would try not to take any of this personally. Most of the time the way people react to us has much more to do with them than it does with us or anything we do. So try to remember they are sick people with their own problems. How they act around you really is more about them than it is about you. ![]() Real friends would talk to you about any problems in your relationship. They would make the effort to communicate with you if something you were doing was bothering them. I wouldn't give these people a second thought. ![]() ![]() ![]()
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![]() I'd rather have a visit, note or pretty picture than an "I'll say a prayer" or a "god bless you." Doesn't make me feel better, no meaning to me for sure. Can't stop you from praying and blessing me, and if that makes you feel better feel free. ![]() But keep it to yourself please, don't tell me. And let's all respect each other's feelings. With kindness, support and "sweet dreamings." ![]() |
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Thank you everyone
I think I will take time out for awhile Friendship is a very special thing |
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