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Old Jan 09, 2011, 04:59 PM
Gulchenrouz Gulchenrouz is offline
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after my recent motorbike crash (november 2010) we told our doctor that we had been in love with her for the past 3 years, we were the one that explained our understanding of transference to her and said it was not going to be a problem has we had had plenty of time to work through it on our own. we also explained that we would understand if she didnt want to see us again, she still will see me, and still converses with us via email at all times of the day and night when we are not doing so good.

the reason we told her was because we had stopped writing short stories and muses and had not written anything for a long time, she suggested i find a way to start again, hence why we are here.
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Old Jan 10, 2011, 09:56 PM
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welcome back, and I'm glad that you were able to be honest with your doctor.
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Old Jan 11, 2011, 08:11 PM
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we only told our doctor what we did so that she would reject us as a client, we had worked out the transference issues ourselves over the previous three years and knew that there was no real possibility of anything happening, at all.

its time for us to move on and she has no place in that world.
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Old Jan 12, 2011, 12:03 PM
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after my recent motorbike crash (november 2010) we told our doctor that we had been in love with her for the past 3 years, we were the one that explained our understanding of transference to her and said it was not going to be a problem has we had had plenty of time to work through it on our own. we also explained that we would understand if she didnt want to see us again, she still will see me, and still converses with us via email at all times of the day and night when we are not doing so good.

the reason we told her was because we had stopped writing short stories and muses and had not written anything for a long time, she suggested i find a way to start again, hence why we are here.
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Old Jan 12, 2011, 07:45 PM
Gulchenrouz Gulchenrouz is offline
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like we always do, we live alone with the consequences of regretting nothing.
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