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Aug 22, 2013, 08:26 AM
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yesterday my session went horrible i think im in a fantasy love world with my group t (male) but also love him like a dad anyway i had individual with t before group seperate my t is female anyway she asked me if my feelings for my t had changed and i told her it shifted a little to the romantic side but i was not picturing sex yet just everything else romantic wise meanwhile my group t did not show up to my session to discuss my dad transference he doesnt have a clue i like him romantically anyway my individual t decided i should quit group until we process this transference because she is worried about it mixing together with our trauma work and blah blah blah anyway bottom line after individual i was not suppose to see group t but i went anyway pulled him out of group explained a little that i wont be seeing him anymore and i hugged him he hugged me back he said he would miss me i told him i will see u in my session soon but i am so crushed
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#2
Aug 25, 2013, 06:35 AM
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Transference is so painful...I know....but it will start to change...morph so to speak as you become stronger.
Erotic Transference | Tales of a Boundary Ninja This blog might help you understand.
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When a child’s emotional needs are not met and a child is repeatedly hurt and abused, this deeply and profoundly affects the child’s development. Wanting those unmet childhood needs in adulthood. Looking for safety, protection, being cherished and loved can often be normal unmet needs in childhood, and the survivor searches for these in other adults. This can be where survivors search for mother and father figures. Transference issues in counseling can occur and this is normal for childhood abuse survivors. |
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Aug 25, 2013, 06:50 AM
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thank you moxie for understanding and replying to my post its very kind of you, its just that my would be ptsd group is on wednesday and i was told not to attend and its like a void i miss him bunches i wish i could get rid of this feeling its so confusing to me because it snuck up on me and quickly shifted from dad tranference to romantic transference
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Aug 25, 2013, 09:52 AM
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Did your main T say how many sessions of group to skip? Or did she not give you a number?
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Aug 25, 2013, 10:48 AM
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im skipping at least 4 weeks of group therapy and she said we will take it from there but by then group will almost be half way over so its no use to me and i will be embarassed to go back, i guess i will have to make sense of this some how to me i didnt think it was a big deal only of course that maybe i was not concentrating to much in ptsd group as much as i was in a fantasy world with this group t
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Aug 25, 2013, 05:07 PM
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Aug 25, 2013, 07:00 PM
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I'm really sorry. I personally think your T is wrong to pull one of your supports because of transference.
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Aug 25, 2013, 09:06 PM
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I think so as well but since I'm new to this I don't know what's wrong or right all I know is that I feel confused and being punished but on the other hand he is a group t so I can't fully work out my transference issues with him I guess
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