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![]() thankyou
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Dearesr gismo,
You and your family have my deepest thought & prayers. May I ask how old she is? Does she practice a particular faith? I understand you not knowing what to say, it is something that is not taught/ talked about in the open. So how would you know. The best thing you can do is listen, let her talk, ask her how she feels and let her express what she wants or needs during this time. If she is'nt one that talks thats okay too. You could take this time to tell her how you love her and tell her she is not alone. To keep her free from physical pain. Honnor her by telling how much joy she has spread upon the earth. You have a husband because she was a mother, if you have children, she was a grandmother. These are things to celebrate. If there was/is any discord this would be the time to forgive any harshness. Some people die suddenly or alone and don't get this time. We are all humans born of light/energy and in the end this is what we return to. Gismo, all you can do is hold her hand, caress her head, keep her calm and free of pain and tell her there is nothing to fear, she is not alone. If she does have a particular faith encourage it, whatever brings her peace. With all due respect I hope I did'nt say anything to offend you. Prayers and Hugs, Happiedasiy
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I will be praying for your mother in law.
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thankyou all for your kind words and thoughts. i really appreciate it . and happyDaisy i'am not offened at all sweets. mother in law is just 68, she as no faith, and is married to a lovely man for 42 years who is american, He was an MP in the military in England and she met him at a army dance . and the rest is history.
saw her on monday, she look's good, but a shadow of her former self, anyway i will keep you guy's posted ,thankyou again gismo xx ![]()
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thinking of you and your mother-in-law and praying for her
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Sending the most positive vibes I can. Say to her all will be well in time. That suffering will pass and peace does come. Quite possibly she already knows. Holding hands with all.
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I'd be honored to offer what prayers I can.
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Yes. What matters is that you did post it. And if healing for her can only be found on the other side of death, then here's my prayer that she find it--even if it must be found there.
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I'm so sorry it happened to you! I'll pray for you and your mother-in-law, hope God helps you
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i feel so humble in reading all of your replies, thankyou all very much for your support and prayers..... my mother in law was not so good over xmas, she got taken into hospital with dehydration due to a water infection so no xmas dinner she was nill by mouth and still she smiles .....
the hospice has given her a wheel chair so she can at least get some fresh air when she feels up to it thankyou once again for all your kind words x
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