[bebop]

just got a call from my stepmom. Dad is having more heart problems. please keep him in your prayers. the fact that he was telling me last week he doesn't think he will live much longer has me even more concerned.

will do..........keeping you and your family in my heart. xoxoxo pat

[bebop]

thanks Pat. it sure means alot to me

((((((((((((bebop and family))))))))))))))

in my thoughts. thinking of you loads, take care speak soon

jinnyann xoxoxoxoxoxox

[bebop]

thank you jinny. sure glad I have a few friends here to help me thru

[bebop]

Dad told us last night he will refuse more surgery.

[(JD)]

Sorry ((((Bebop)))) My dad refused chemo. and radiation

[BlueFaith]

(((( bebop ))))
You and your dad are in my thoughts and prayers.

[bebop]

thanks sky. I am sorry he refused those.

[bebop]

thanks mp. we need it.

[darkeyes]

((((((((((( bebop and family )))))))))))
You'll be in my thoughts/prayers, please take care.

[SeptemberMorn]

Oh, Be! I'm so sorry it's come to this. Prayers going straight to the Throne for both you and your dad that God's will be done in this.

{{{{{{{{{{{{{{{{Elaine and Dad}}}}}}}}}}}}}}}}}}}}

[bebop]

thanks DE. not sure how this is all going to go down. I really need to talk to him about his decision.

tomi thanks. I just hope I can get him to change his mind. *sigh*

[SeptemberMorn]

Be, GOD'S will, Hon! GOD'S will.

[(JD)]

((((Bebop)))) What do his doctors say? Can you be there with your dad and have the doctor explain it all to you together? Then you are all operating on the same information. Perhaps your dad is "just" afraid of what it will be like to live ... most of us fear the unknown, it's a powerful force. Maybe your dad "knows" he will be a burden and rather than do that to anyone, he would rather go? Logic often wins out on these things... and plenty of love.

[bebop]

sky I will be there for the stress test if he does it. he told me thursday he may not let them do it. he feels in his heart he is just ready to go to Heaven. we will have to see how this plays out at this point.

[(JD)]

I hate those stress tests and think they should be banned. With modern technology, they can SEE what his heart is doing or not

I hope he doesn't do it...if he feels his heart is that bad, it might just send him on

Of course, if his heart isn't that bad and he completes the test, that would prove to him he has more time?

[(JD)]

Go with God. He knows best.

[bebop]

they don't do the treadmill on him anymore. it is too much for him so they use the chemical test instead.

praying bebop! Tc

[InACorner]

(((((((Bebop)))))))))))
my heart and prayers are with you