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Old Jan 19, 2016, 04:25 AM
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Hello. Im very distraught. My daughter and I had an argument and she wants to comitt suicide and feels that I am so Eveil. She is Very Mentally unstable at the moment and wants to move out of the state to get away from me thevEvil One. I Swear that Ibam a good person. I just need prayers from anyone that believes in prayer. Im just three sheeys to the win f from staying up and trying to help her. Please justvPray that her delisions get under control and that she will seek professional help. Im mentally burned out from her threats against me and my other children and i am scared of her intentions of hrr hurting me and my children. And may God forever forgive me but I told her to lrave mecand my children alone or i would contact the authorities and have her put away for as long as necessary if i had to disown her legally. Please forgive me prayer worriers but no one is going to threaten to kill me and my oth r r children okay. That will not happen from her delisional irrational arse. Ill take care of that situation accordingly. I will disown her ASAP if she even comes to my state to hurt me and my children. I will have her picked up where she is and sent to prison for attempted murder and that is all i will do. Thank you all prayer worriers but dont feel sorry for me. Ill do what i need to do even if it means seeing her go to prison from noe on from her balogney. Just pray that she gets some help because im done with the threats a and her attempt to harm me and my other children. Period. Take care Soidhonia.
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Old Jan 19, 2016, 02:23 PM
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OMG you are going through a tough time!!!it must be breaking your heart to have to go through this. get an order of protection first of all. she has to see a doctor too. did you ask her to see one? i know that is a stupid question because she probably is in denial of having a problem. is she PMSing? i myself used to do and say stupid things when i had my mensis, the doctor knew right away i had PMS. if she's suicidal, call the hospital or 911 or crisis center and soon. she may come around when she feels better maybe after meds. i know i put my family through hell until i got on meds.good luck
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Old Jan 19, 2016, 02:30 PM
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Three sheets to the wind? That's a drinking term for being totally drunk! I think you mean totally fatigued and "spent"?

You don't have to be a friend to your daughter, I'm sure you know. But be consistent in your love for her. If you say nothing to argue with, she cannot argue. Give positive affirmations. You may have to dig for them, but give her good compliments and nothing "but" nor contrary right now. She wants you to rescue her, but she needs to feel in control I think.
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Old Jan 19, 2016, 06:25 PM
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It sounds like your daughter is in a lot of emotional turmoil, she is struggling to make sense of it and thus is expressing a lot of anger. Her threat for suicide is probably because she is at a point right now where she is so lost and angry that she feels in order to get rid of this anguish, the answer is to completely give up on life.

This is hard on you because instead of her taking this emotional turmoil out on you, she needs to have help from someone who can guide her out of this deep level of emotional turmoil.

Her threats to harm your other children is her wanting you to hurt like her so you "hear" her. She is feeling very unheard and she is very angry. It sounds like she resents your other children, they have "you" and she doesn't and she is feeling very "needy" right now.

She needs help. Does she have any means to gain access to help?
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Old Jan 20, 2016, 05:10 AM
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Yes my daughter has the means to get help. Period. She just is jealius of her other siblings. She is independent. At 31 and loves manipulating people with DRAMA. SHE IS A GREAT actress. She is single and loving every minute of her threats. Shes a very very disturbed woman. She feela she does not need help. Its okay to threaten me. Thats all. Drama just her darn Drama. Now she thinks shes got me again with her drama honey yeah a Restraining Order. Open. Thats all babe.
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Old Jan 22, 2016, 06:07 PM
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Prayers for you and your family. Be safe.
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Old Jan 23, 2016, 05:19 PM
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She sounds like a huge challenge, I think you need the prayers the most (((Soidhonia))).

I will say a pray for you, and that your daughter finds her way to leading her life in a more positive way.
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Old Jan 24, 2016, 05:51 PM
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My mom and I have had our difficulties in life. Partly because she does know best except doesn't know how to relay that information in a way that isn't a put down. She has always treated me like a teenager she has to control. My point is your daughter is fighting for independence, respectful treatment from you, and grasping at straws on how to obtain that.

Tell her you love her, want the best for her, and don't play into her dramatic nature. Let her know you'll be there for her, but bless her travel or move etc.

I pray you two can work through your differences and express the love you have for each other. Amen.
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Old Jan 26, 2016, 09:22 AM
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