please pray for the children

((((((((Soliaree )))))))))))))))))))))))))))))))))))
"When there is a large enough discrepancy between the two scores "

that was how I go the label for him
That was the beginning
The PDD came after as A autisic Dr was brought in due to the help of my Dr.
He knew the rules...
My son is great at math
amazes me......he can do it in his head....no paper
The reading and writting is still a issue ((a huge one)))
Thank you I will prolly will pm you as him being in 12 grade this year I need one set up so he is not lost out of the system for college
They do give up due to fustration
I have seen that this year\
THank you so much
I have tryed my hardest with him...
I wanted so bad for him to make it threw it
SO far he has.....
He has to want it too
He was tested for Ad/ hd
that was not there
LD, PDD, OCD
thank you again
its so nice to know ppl care

BTW you sound like a wonderful person too

(((((Muffy))))))),
Fortunately, your son has a lot going for him right now -- YOU!

What is your son thinking about doing after high school? Is there anything that interests him?

Take Care!

((((((((Soliaree )))))))))))))))))))))))))
I am sorry I did not see this.....
I am going to be real honest here.
RIght now being 17 he is very much into himself.
Not seeing the big picture
He had a huge interest in skate boarding and he was really good at it.((that was not really a logical answer anyways))
But took one to many chances with himself. SO thats out.
At one point he wanted to be a policeman. That was last year. I can not see that happening
RIght now I think hes lost and trying very hard to find his way.
Sadly the path hes walking is not the one to get to a good place easly.
Hes made some realy bad choices this week...
Thank you
sorry i did not see this sooner
muffy

Muffy,
It sounds like your 17 year-old is totally normal, LOL! I know it is difficult to wait and watch, but I suspect he will get on the right path in time Take care.

((((Bchlyn))),
I hope things are going okay for you

((((Bchlyn))),
I hope things are going okay for you

muffy i think sometimes kids with ld hit adolescence harder then kids that don't have them... my sons all three had different but serious medical conditions... when they were teens they really tested their boundaries... but now i see the hope that they are heading back the right direction... my oldest is the one with the lord he just made some really positive steps, but seems to be wanting to go backwards to where he was comfortable...grrrrrrrrrr i am hoping it will be just for a short time... keep praying for your son... i know it's hard to watch them struggle... and make choices that will follow them... i am praying for you... lyn

soliaree ty for asking... things are showing signs of slowing down a bit... so i am hoping they will get better... lyn

bchlyn
thank you
boundaries have been set
Its his path right now
I will always be there for him....
but its come to a point now
where his walk along the path hes gotta get correct.
i am leaving awhole lot out of this ((sorry))
i also do not want to give the impression i am turning my back
I am not..

but he needs to find his way
with kindness love and he needs some peace in his heart
only he can find that.............
I can not make him accept those things
I have taught them to him....now he has to apply them

one of the hardest things i have ever done..
is to not lead him...but giving him freedom of choice
muffy

i know it is... and you are doing better then i did.... he will come through this a better person because he has a mother who has shown him the truth... and in a really tangible way you are leading him... he might not see it yet but he will.... you are leading him in the direction he needs right now to become an adult... i understand just how hard things are for both of you... i guess it's hard for the Lord to give us that freedom too... you know? lyn

bchlyn
Thank you so much
You have done such a good job with your son
LIfe is hard with them
They are a gift so very special
As you said by showing him the truth and setting him free
its the best way....
yes it is hard....i do think you understand totally what i am saying here
thank you for that...........
as i left out alot .....i think you read between the lines
((thank you ))))))
muffy

yw...ty... you know... there comes a point in our kids life when their friends and the world seems to have more of an influence then we do... but i believe that they will come back around to the truth... take gentle care...lyn

bchlyn
I think you are right
Thier friends seem to rule at some point.
Which i remember the same happening to me
I also think there is more out there for kids now to get in trouble with now...
wow i sound old
may they all stay safe

(((((((((((((((((muffy & bchlyn)))))))))))))))))))

how courageous you are! Many blessings.

i am not Christian, but i pray for blessings and peace for you. i hope you accept this gesture.

namaste

((Candika)))))))))))))))))))))))))))))))))
" pray for blessings and peace for you. i hope you accept this gesture."

Given that kind of gesture with all your heart (TY)
is the greatest gift...
I am honored ((TY))

It matters not what your faith is to me
its the person you are.....
thats what i believe
ty so much
muffy

thank you candika... i believe all prayers are heard.
muffy... i think that the part of it is that when we were kids when we made a mistake the consequences weren't so life altering... you don't sound old... you sound like a mom of a teen...lyn

A meeting was held quite far from earth!
It's time again for another birth.
Said the angels to the Lord above.
This child will need much love.
His progress maybe very slow.
Accomplishment he may not show.
And he'll require extra care.
From the folks he meets down there.
He may not run or laugh or play.
His thoughts may seem quite far away.
In many ways he won't adapt.
And he'll be known as handicapped.

So lets be careful where he's sent.
We want his life to be content.
Please , Lord, find the parents who
Will do a special job for You.

They will not realize right away
The leading role they're asked to play.
But with this child sent from above.
Comes stronger faith and richer love.

And soon they'll know the privilege given
In caring for their gift from heaven.
Their precious charge, so meek and mild.
Is heavens very Special child.

This was written By: Edna Massimilla

may the world see these children are gifts
may we all protect them
may we all respect them
may we all help them to know
different is ok
(((((((((That its ok to be you))))))))))))))))))))))))))))))))))))))))))
muffy

'may the world see these children are gifts
may we all protect them
may we all respect them
may we all help them to know
different is ok
(((((((((That its ok to be you))))))))))))))))))))))))))))))))))))))))))
muffy '

((((muffy)))))) ((lyn))))) ((((all on this thread, all moms', all parents, all people...... ))))))))

like a star a child is born
the star shines so bright
bright within that child is a gift
that gift is given unto us
unto us we all must protect
protect that child for hes a star
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((bchlyn ))(((nowheretorun))((everyone who has posted)))
I am so glad we prayed for the children
they are so worth it
may it continue
muffy

along time ago a child was alone
he sat by himself, the others ignored
along came a teacher to show him the way
she came like the wind to guide the other kids too
she spoke ever so softly, so all would care
she knew this one and that one needed great care
under her wings she took them all
so they knew they all belonged
the child never sat alone again
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teachers often are the ones to first notice a childs problems, especially learning and social skills.. thank God there are kind ones who care....

((nowheretorun)) so right you are

The wings of a child
So precious are they
Dainty and small at birth
Meant to be protected
and guarded for.....
Never to be harmed
was the way it was meant
Along the way it was altered
for some......
Those are the ones
who need special care
May a prayer be said
For those in need
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i am so sad today... one of the children in the program that was closed, spends most of the day by herself in the special day class, because she is too disruptive when she is in kinder... i am going to go and offer to have her come play with my kids... but my guess is they will say no...