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Old Aug 26, 2008, 10:08 AM
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I just got a call from my mother in law . My husbands uncle and aunts house burned down last night. His uncle died in the fire. His aunt got out ok, her husband had helped her. But then when he tried , he fell and couldnt get out. He was the oldest of the 15 siblings in my father in laws family and the first to die.

Please give me the strength to tell my husband today. He was very close to this part of the family.

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Old Aug 26, 2008, 11:43 AM
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(((((((((((((((( Bethy & hubby and family ))))))))))))))))))))))

I'm so very sorry for your loss. What a tragedy Husbands family needs prayers Please know you are all in my prayers and thoughts.

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Old Aug 26, 2008, 12:15 PM
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Thank You (((((((( Sabby)))))))) This family has been thru so much, just breaks my heart that their dad had to go this way. He was a good guy,a product of the US Navy, a father of 10, married to his wife for 60+ yrs. I cant even begin tot count the number of grandkids and great grandkids. Used to tease him that he and his wife produced bunnies lol. Always got a big smile out of him for that one.
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Old Aug 26, 2008, 12:22 PM
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Hon, I'm glad you can remember the good times and funny things right now. That is so important in getting through this difficult time. Sounds like he was doing everything he could to help his wife get out....a man who helped his loved ones....what an awesome way to be remembered.

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Old Aug 26, 2008, 01:19 PM
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oh bethy I am so sorry hon. what a tragedy! my love to you and tom during this very difficult time. (((((hugs))))
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Old Aug 26, 2008, 01:41 PM
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(sweet Hubby and family))))))))))))))))))))))))))
I am so sorry for your familys loss
LIfe is so precious
Is so short...
He sounds like a real hero
He cared for his wife before himself
I am praying for you and your husband
And your aunt
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Old Aug 26, 2008, 02:27 PM
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This is so true Sabby. I am going to hunt for the picture of Uncle Jim and my husband dancing at Uncle Jim daughters wedding reception. That was one of my best memories of him. I can see so much of Uncle Jims sense of humor in my husband. Just that ornery fun type ya know? Very thankful for these good memories..
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Old Aug 26, 2008, 02:29 PM
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Thanks Bebop, it was quite the shock . I've been in this melancholy like mood most of today. I think a few tears fell in the peaches.. guess those are tears of love right? sigh...
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Old Aug 26, 2008, 02:32 PM
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Thank you Muffy. Yes life is precious. Need to be as full of life as we can and enjoy it. I think this was his last hurrah.. There's been times in his life, he wasnt such the hero, but this time , he really stepped up and did his very best. Life got him down at times. Did not make him a bad person. Just had issues like most of us. But a good man non the less. Its going to be a hard transition for this family.
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Old Aug 26, 2008, 06:04 PM
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beth that will just make the peaches all the sweeter hon.
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Old Aug 26, 2008, 10:01 PM
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((Sweet))) im so sorry to hear about this tragic loss, i will pray for healing for each of you
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Old Aug 26, 2008, 11:32 PM
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Thanks NWTR... Its going to be a hard week . Hubbys Aunt is in the hospital being treated for smoke inhalation and she also fell on her back when she got out the window. We have no idea when the funeral will be yet. They just had it on the nightly news, windows all boarded up, guess the kids went over to do that. Just so sad. Husbands family needs prayers
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You, your hubby and family are all in my prayers, Sweety. Husbands family needs prayers
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