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Old Mar 31, 2009, 08:18 PM
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........but would you kindly keep my youngest daughter and my oldest grandson in your thoughts and prayers?

Daughter lost her best friend, her soul mate on Friday night by his own hand. He was also very close to my grandson and this is his 2nd loss in 5 months. He lost his Dad in November in a car accident.

Tomorrow are the services and I'm worried about the 2 of them and how they will get through this. My heart is broken by his death as well, but I'm strong enough to get through this but not sure if I can handle the both of them breaking down at the same time. I'm sure I will do what needs to be done.

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Old Mar 31, 2009, 08:20 PM
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Absolutely sabby. I am so terribly terribly sorry for this devastation.
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Old Mar 31, 2009, 09:16 PM
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Sympathies and best wishes for you and your family. So very sad...
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Old Mar 31, 2009, 09:40 PM
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........but would you kindly keep my youngest daughter and my oldest grandson in your thoughts and prayers?

Daughter lost her best friend, her soul mate on Friday night by his own hand. He was also very close to my grandson and this is his 2nd loss in 5 months. He lost his Dad in November in a car accident.

Tomorrow are the services and I'm worried about the 2 of them and how they will get through this. My heart is broken by his death as well, but I'm strong enough to get through this but not sure if I can handle the both of them breaking down at the same time. I'm sure I will do what needs to be done.

Thanks everyone for helping me out here. I truly appreciate it.


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I'm so sorry! That is so very sad! I pray for peace and blessings and strength to be restored to you and your loved ones at this very trying time.
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Old Apr 01, 2009, 12:31 AM
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My thoughts are with you and your family...

I just saw this and I offer my apology for not replying sooner.

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Old Apr 01, 2009, 02:23 AM
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sabby, I am sorry to hear of your families loss and send my sympathies to you and your family - I hope things go to plan and that some peace can be found
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Old Apr 01, 2009, 03:46 AM
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Sabby,

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Please comfort Sabby, her daughter and grandson and other family and friends. Especially hold her grandson in the safety of your arms.
In JS's name
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Old Apr 01, 2009, 04:38 AM
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((((((((((((((((( Sabby )))))))))))))))

(((((((((((daugther)))))))))))))))) ((((((((((((( grandson )))))))))))))

Prayers offered....................you will all be in my thoughts and prayers

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Old Apr 01, 2009, 07:03 AM
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...prayers for your daughter, her son, and YOU
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Old Apr 01, 2009, 08:50 AM
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(((((((Sabby)))))))) (((((((daughter)))))))) (((((((((grandson))))))))),

Will pray that God will ease the pain that you are all feeling with such a sad loss. It is impossible for us to make sense out of losses like this, but God does have His way of providing a sense of peace for he knows & understands & cares about the pain that your daughters friend felt.


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Old Apr 01, 2009, 08:57 AM
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It's ok to ask for help and support in your time of need. I am so very sorry for your loss and you all will be in my thoughts and prayers.
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Old Apr 01, 2009, 10:12 AM
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hon my thoughts and prayers are with you and your family today.
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Old Apr 01, 2009, 02:13 PM
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I'm so sorry to hear of this. I know you feel strong enough...but be sure to share with them your great sadness too, and show some of it along with sharing that the 3 of you will get through this time together. hugs to you
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Old Apr 01, 2009, 02:25 PM
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