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Old Sep 28, 2009, 10:59 PM
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My son died early this morning (Sept. 28)..he was 26. Am having a very difficult time holding it all together...or even caring if I do. Just wanted to tell someone. -iluzhyn

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Old Sep 28, 2009, 11:08 PM
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I am so sorry to hear. (((((iluzhyn)))))
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Old Sep 28, 2009, 11:55 PM
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My son died early this morning (Sept. 28)..he was 26.

I'm very sorry to hear that, iluzyhn.



Am having a very difficult time holding it all together...or even caring if I do.

That makes sense to me. I don't imagine I'd be any different. My condolences to you and yours, iluzhyn.

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Old Sep 29, 2009, 01:28 AM
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I am so sorry for your loss.
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Old Sep 29, 2009, 01:41 AM
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I am very sorry for your loss. I can't imagine what you are going through. He was so young.
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Old Sep 29, 2009, 03:45 AM
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iluzhyn, there is a Grief and Loss discussion area at this site too. I realize you might not be ready to go there right now but maybe it will be of help to you at a later time.



I'm so sorry to know of your sadness. This is a good time to take the best care of you that you're able. I hope you have people in your life who can hold you and provide you a shoulder to lean on for as long as you need it.

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Old Sep 29, 2009, 04:58 AM
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I'm really sorry to hear that

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Old Sep 29, 2009, 07:23 AM
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I'd like to thank you all for your support and kind words. It has helped me immensely. - iluzhyn
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Old Sep 29, 2009, 09:23 AM
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Old Sep 29, 2009, 10:58 AM
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I am very sorry for your loss. I read once that the only thing stronger that fate is the courage to endure it.

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Old Sep 29, 2009, 12:22 PM
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I am so sorry for your loss. A loss of a child is the hardest thing anyone will ever go through, even harder then that of giving birth. Take care and get away if you can, after you lay him to rest take a vacation, if you cant just maybe go for a long drive and try to go somewhere serene. Take care of your self.
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Old Sep 30, 2009, 10:39 AM
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So sorry for the loss of your son. I will pray for you and your family and may he rest in peace.
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I am so sorry for your loss. My prayers are with you.
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Old Oct 01, 2009, 04:47 PM
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Old Oct 02, 2009, 11:43 PM
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Thank you all for your kind words and prayers. My son was laid to rest on Thursday (Oct 1). I really appreciate the support that those on these forums have shown...it was truly needed and helped me to not feel so alone during this time. -iluzhyn
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Old Oct 05, 2009, 06:13 AM
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My son died early this morning (Sept. 28)..he was 26. Am having a very difficult time holding it all together...or even caring if I do. Just wanted to tell someone. -iluzhyn
I am so terribly sorry about your son. Nothing is adequate to say. I will share my firm conviction that there is no death for the spirit. Thank You for Sharing this very difficult moment with us. billieJ
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