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Feb 24, 2014, 09:09 PM
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...and I don't feel a thing. I mean I'm not sad or nothing. I think there is something wrong with me.
 I mean really , I shoudl feel something . Right? Wouldn't you? Maybe it will catch me later. I D K.
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#2
Feb 24, 2014, 09:14 PM
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I had this happen when my grandma died it wasn't real to me for another couple of months then I cried...
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Feb 24, 2014, 09:14 PM
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im sorry to hear that. some people go through stage of grief. this could be one for you.
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#4
Feb 24, 2014, 09:17 PM
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I had the same reaction when my grandfather. I think as someone else stated - everyone has their own way of coping. I never did cry and those feelings never 'caught up'. He runs across my mind every now and then but it wasn't like I saw him daily anyways so it wasn't like I missed a dominant presence. Love him but just not necessary for me to react the way that many people have been conditioned to. Perhaps that's the same with you? *big hugs and my condolences*
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#5
Feb 24, 2014, 09:18 PM
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Numbness can often come with the grief process. I'm very sorry for your loss.
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Allie Diagnosed: Generalized Anxiety Disorder & Obsessive Compulsive Disoder. Previous: Borderline Personality Disorder. I no longer qualify for a diagnosis of Borderline Personality Disorder, but there will always be my borderline traits that I struggle with especially during times of great stress. I've been working passionately as a therapist since December 2016
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#6
Feb 24, 2014, 09:18 PM
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My grandfather passed away about a year ago and I didn't feel anything either. If anything it felt like life got easier. Though if anything I felt a lot of dislike toward him because of the way he treated my grandmother so that could be a factor. Were you close to your grandfather?
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#7
Feb 24, 2014, 09:29 PM
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If you have come here for support, you might as well leave cause I have none to give. Im simply broken and can not be fixed.Be careful of your thoughts, for your thoughts become your words...be careful of your words, for your words become your actions...be careful of your actions, for your actions become your habits...be careful of your habits, for your habits become your character...be careful of your character, for your character becomes your destiny. |
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Feb 25, 2014, 10:20 AM
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Angel,
no, nothing is wrong with you. Sometimes I think our minds protect us from it at first and it comes back later. It took me over a year to feel it for my mom. Until then, I was in a bubble. I wasn't happy or sad or numb. It's hard to explain. Then one day, while I was watching "Roseann" show after school, her voice reminded me of my mom and it all came rushing in. Everyone experiences grief different, and it's okay.
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Feb 25, 2014, 06:15 PM
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Thank you everyone
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If you have come here for support, you might as well leave cause I have none to give. Im simply broken and can not be fixed.Be careful of your thoughts, for your thoughts become your words...be careful of your words, for your words become your actions...be careful of your actions, for your actions become your habits...be careful of your habits, for your habits become your character...be careful of your character, for your character becomes your destiny. |
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Feb 26, 2014, 01:26 PM
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Angel-wings I'm sorry for your loss. *Willow* |
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Mar 02, 2014, 11:20 PM
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(((Lil Angel Wings))) I'm very sorry for your loss. Whatever you feel or don't feel is OK. I bet you are numb/ in shock.
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Be like water making its way through cracks, do not be assertive, but adjust to the object, if nothing within you stays rigid, outward things will disclose themselves. --Bruce Lee |
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