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Old Sep 06, 2019, 12:58 PM
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Sunday my best friend... My husband passed away. We have been married for 18 years. His big fear of dying was that I would fall apart and end up in the hospital again. You see I don't do alone good. Thankfully my Mother lives close by so I have been with her on and off for this week. i am not sleeping well, so that is wearing me down. i have been stable on my meds of about 4 years, so we'll just have to wait and see how I cope when life gets a little more stable. I have been on disability for the last 8 years, and now that he is gone I will probably need to get a job. I dread that as I tried to work last year and only lasted 4 day. Please keep me in your prayers.
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Old Sep 06, 2019, 01:05 PM
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I'm so sorry that your husband passed away. HUGS. I can't even imagine the pain you must be going through. I'm glad your Mother lives nearby to help you. I can understand not sleeping well and things like that. Grief is hard to endure. You have my deepest sympathy for your loss. HUGS Kit
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Old Sep 06, 2019, 01:07 PM
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I'm really sorry for your loss I'll keep you in my prayers
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Old Sep 06, 2019, 01:23 PM
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Tremendously sorry for your loss, Angel Wings. Deepest, most profound sympathy.
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Old Sep 06, 2019, 01:46 PM
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I'm sorry for our loss, I'm like your Husband. I'm currently disabled fighting Cancer and my wife has been Disabled for more years than we've been married. I worry all the time about her life if and when I die. I hope you land on your feet. Again My Condolences
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Old Sep 06, 2019, 04:02 PM
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Hugs, I'm glad you have your mother to support you
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Old Sep 06, 2019, 07:40 PM
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I am really sorry to hear this.

Im not sure what to say besides, this is horrible and I am really sorry to hear it

If you need to talk you can pm me. I know its not even close to enough, I wish I could do more, but if you ever need someone to listen...
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Old Sep 06, 2019, 08:07 PM
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Praying for you. Sorry you're going through this and condolences to you regarding the loss of your best friend and husband.
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Old Sep 07, 2019, 10:09 PM
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I am very sorry to hear of your loss. Nothing I say can make the pain that you are feeling go away. I hope that you are able to cope without a relapse. Very happy that you have someone close by that you are able to go to for help. Prayers and hugs sent your way. Please keep us posted.
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