[firefighter369]

okay im over weight and have man breasts and at school my breasts get grabbed all the time..no big deal doesn't bother me because they stop when I tell them to..but their this one skinny male who does it and when I tell him to stop he doesn't...when I walk into the room he says "how big are they?" refereeing to my breasts at first it didn't bother me its been going on since school has started this year and lately its been bugging the piss outta me...he does not know when to stop..he does it I say okay enough he keeps doing it I say okay back off me...he keeps going so I walk away before I lose my temper and as I walk away he says to me"ya walk away pu**y" so I turn around because he clearly wants to start something and as he is basically running away from me he says "do something b**ch" im getting so fed up with this kid...I cant go to the school about it because last year I was bullied and went to the school and they did nothing...this kid even does it infront of the teacher and its starting to get me so angry im gonna end up hurting the kid...I have it all planned out break his hands so he cant grab me and punch him in the face and break his jaw so he cant call me those mans....theirs a saying where I grew up "if you keep poking the bear your gonna get mauled" and trust me he keeps poking this bear and trust me he is gonna get mualed

[NoCake]

First off if you go after him you'll be the one in trouble not him.

Secondly if you break anything you're looking at assault and battery and the punishment depends on your age. Regardless that is a very stupid thing to do. You need to keep your head on straight here and handle this calmly.

Walking away was good. But if he does it again you need to firmly tell him to stop. FIRMLY. EYE CONTACT. CLEAR AND STRONG VOICE. STAND STRAIGHT. Body language is just as important as verbal. I'm not gonna lie - since he's gotten away with it before he might try his luck so be ready.

If he touches you after you tell him to stop then it's time to defend yourself. Push his arm away from you if he tries again. Remember that violence is always a LAST RESORT. You DO NOT start fights but you do defend yourself.

[firefighter369]

Originally Posted by NoCake

First off if you go after him you'll be the one in trouble not him.

Secondly if you break anything you're looking at assault and battery and the punishment depends on your age. Regardless that is a very stupid thing to do. You need to keep your head on straight here and handle this calmly.

Walking away was good. But if he does it again you need to firmly tell him to stop. FIRMLY. EYE CONTACT. CLEAR AND STRONG VOICE. STAND STRAIGHT. Body language is just as important as verbal. I'm not gonna lie - since he's gotten away with it before he might try his luck so be ready.

If he touches you after you tell him to stop then it's time to defend yourself. Push his arm away from you if he tries again. Remember that violence is always a LAST RESORT. You DO NOT start fights but you do defend yourself.

I tell him all the time in a firm voice to stop....I shove him away but an hour later he is back....this has been going on since September.....

[firefighter369]

Originally Posted by NoCake

First off if you go after him you'll be the one in trouble not him.

Secondly if you break anything you're looking at assault and battery and the punishment depends on your age. Regardless that is a very stupid thing to do. You need to keep your head on straight here and handle this calmly.

Walking away was good. But if he does it again you need to firmly tell him to stop. FIRMLY. EYE CONTACT. CLEAR AND STRONG VOICE. STAND STRAIGHT. Body language is just as important as verbal. I'm not gonna lie - since he's gotten away with it before he might try his luck so be ready.

If he touches you after you tell him to stop then it's time to defend yourself. Push his arm away from you if he tries again. Remember that violence is always a LAST RESORT. You DO NOT start fights but you do defend yourself.

and im not one for violence. I stay clear from it but this kid keeps asking for it....he has no respect for the teacher or his other classmates and since his parents wont teach him to keep his hands to himself im gonna...I told my parents about this and they told me to kick his *****

[NoCake]

3 to 4 months really is a long time and he probably is going to continue to press. I don't want to doubt you here because I'm not there but you really want to make sure that you are loud about this. It needs to be clear that you are angry and you won't allow it anymore. You need to verbalize that you aren't going to let him do it again. Not only is this to make your intentions known but to make sure that there can be no denying that you tried verbal defence first. When you push his arm away do it with force and not a simple swatting motion.

If he tries a second time then defend yourself because that is certainly assault when he does that. If he has friends be careful because guys these days are wimps and sometimes jump in so be aware of his boys if they are around. And keep off the ground whatever you do.

[firefighter369]

Originally Posted by NoCake

3 to 4 months really is a long time and he probably is going to continue to press. I don't want to doubt you here because I'm not there but you really want to make sure that you are loud about this. It needs to be clear that you are angry and you won't allow it anymore. You need to verbalize that you aren't going to let him do it again. Not only is this to make your intentions known but to make sure that there can be no denying that you tried verbal defence first. When you push his arm away do it with force and not a simple swatting motion.

If he tries a second time then defend yourself because that is certainly assault when he does that. If he has friends be careful because guys these days are wimps and sometimes jump in so be aware of his boys if they are around. And keep off the ground whatever you do.

his friends are my friends...so I don't have to worry about them...they are all smaller then me anyway not saying im some HUGE guy who can beat anyone up...ive lost fights before....im not afraid to admit it but I am proud because I stood up for myself and my beliefs....but im not worried about this kid

violence will only get you suspended or expelled. this is classic bullying that needs to be taken up with a higher authority. if you really want it to stop, you need to get someone in the faculty or administration on your side.

saying someone in the faculty won't help is bull. if they won't, get the police involved. you have to push for help just like you're having to push to get this kid to leave you alone.

the mere fact that this kid is touching you makes this physical if not sexual harassment. that is plenty reason to get someone else involved. no excuses.

[firefighter369]

Originally Posted by DreamAddiction37

violence will only get you suspended or expelled. this is classic bullying that needs to be taken up with a higher authority. if you really want it to stop, you need to get someone in the faculty or administration on your side.

saying someone in the faculty won't help is bull. if they won't, get the police involved. you have to push for help just like you're having to push to get this kid to leave you alone.

the mere fact that this kid is touching you makes this physical if not sexual harassment. that is plenty reason to get someone else involved. no excuses.

that is true

[firefighter369]

Originally Posted by DreamAddiction37

violence will only get you suspended or expelled. this is classic bullying that needs to be taken up with a higher authority. if you really want it to stop, you need to get someone in the faculty or administration on your side.

saying someone in the faculty won't help is bull. if they won't, get the police involved. you have to push for help just like you're having to push to get this kid to leave you alone.

the mere fact that this kid is touching you makes this physical if not sexual harassment. that is plenty reason to get someone else involved. no excuses.

but I am also not to to be a "rat" that's not something anyone would like to be labeled in high school

That is ridiculous. It's harassment and bullying! What if it gets worse? What if he runs up and actually injures you? Are you still just going to let him do it? From your previous posts, it seems like you'd rather get yourself kicked out of school or worse than see that this kid actually stops his anti-social behavior. If you're just venting and never plan on taking anyone's advice unless they agree with what you've already planned on doing, then I guess it's no use trying to give you any advice, is it.

But I still suggest at least talking to the school counselor about it. You don't have to tell them who it is, but you need someone at the school on your side.

And I said no excuses. Being afraid to be labeled a rat is just an excuse. There have been so many measures put in place to stop bullying and you're just setting everything back by being afraid of some stupid label.

[firefighter369]

Originally Posted by DreamAddiction37

That is ridiculous. It's harassment and bullying! What if it gets worse? What if he runs up and actually injures you? Are you still just going to let him do it? From your previous posts, it seems like you'd rather get yourself kicked out of school or worse than see that this kid actually stops his anti-social behavior. If you're just venting and never plan on taking anyone's advice unless they agree with what you've already planned on doing, then I guess it's no use trying to give you any advice, is it.

But I still suggest at least talking to the school counselor about it. You don't have to tell them who it is, but you need someone at the school on your side.

And I said no excuses. Being afraid to be labeled a rat is just an excuse. There have been so many measures put in place to stop bullying and you're just setting everything back by being afraid of some stupid label.

last year I was bullied..i was bullied about something way out of my control and I went to the school about it....they called the kids in to the office and talked to them about it....no action just talked to them....wanna know what happened to me? continued to get bullied...I lost all faith in schools after that..they sit their and preach about anti bullying and when someone goes to them about bullying they sit them down and have a friendly chat with them....so ive tried going to the school once before and nothing happened im taking matters into my own hands....I have taken your advice into considersion I truly have....I wont break his bones but I will teach him when someone says stop you stop....im not gonna get kicked out of school for it because ive got pushed past my breaking point before and all I did was get suspended for 3 days....it takes a lot to get me angry it truly does and this kid managed it

[firefighter369]

Originally Posted by DreamAddiction37

That is ridiculous. It's harassment and bullying! What if it gets worse? What if he runs up and actually injures you? Are you still just going to let him do it? From your previous posts, it seems like you'd rather get yourself kicked out of school or worse than see that this kid actually stops his anti-social behavior. If you're just venting and never plan on taking anyone's advice unless they agree with what you've already planned on doing, then I guess it's no use trying to give you any advice, is it.

But I still suggest at least talking to the school counselor about it. You don't have to tell them who it is, but you need someone at the school on your side.

And I said no excuses. Being afraid to be labeled a rat is just an excuse. There have been so many measures put in place to stop bullying and you're just setting everything back by being afraid of some stupid label.

since I hate fighting ill sit the kid down and talk to him man to man about it...ill tell him how its gonna be...no if ands or buts about it.....if it continues ill go to the cops...I wont take things into my own hands....