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May 31, 2013, 01:31 AM
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title says it all.......
I know I can't be done... I just feel so done with everything and ESPECIALLY school and I'm not really sure why exactly I'm doing it in this section of PC but I needed to so I am and yeah...I'm just in need of support I guess... I don't have many friends... in fact I have one.... and she does not understand ANYTHING. We were having a heart to heart one day and she literally says 'I hate people that cut... I mean seriously, why do you do it? It's gross.' I was so shocked that she would say something like that to me... and she's so triggering all the time with her 'dieting' **** and all that....  although I am really very sensitive to triggers. I'm going on a month long vacation with her soon and I'm dreading it to be honest... I really really really don't want to go... but even if I told my mum that I don't want to go, I would still go because if I didn't then I wouldn't have anyone to talk to at school and it's a cycle... I would be so depressed... I don't know what to do.... I'm so torn... and she's also such a persistent person and she won't let me go without telling her things. I DO NOT TRUST PEOPLE EASILY AND SHE DOES NOT SEEM TO UNDERSTAND IT. I have told her some of my feelings and giver her some very clear hints and stuff, but she normally tells me I'm being stupid or she just doesn't understand... please help and maybe some advice. Thank you so much for reading!!! xoxo <3 <3 <3
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#2
May 31, 2013, 01:49 PM
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sorry your struggling. doesn't sound like she is very empathetic. i dont' think she is trying to be insensitive, she probably just doesn't understand.
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May 31, 2013, 07:22 PM
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You do not have to go on vacation with this friend. You have quite a few interests that you could pursue instead and use to meet others. This might be a good summer to stretch and make some new friends. And to spend time writing (join a young writers group?}, dancing, ...
Could be time for some changes!
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Jun 01, 2013, 03:59 AM
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 I agree with winter4me. If you don't want to go, then don't. If you do chose to go, however, I suggest you tell her you can't put up with her comments and prepare to spend some time away from her on the trip. I agree that she certainly seems clueless. |
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Jun 08, 2013, 05:32 PM
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Yeah...if everything inside you is basically screaming at you not to go, I'd take that as a sign. You always have the right to stand up for yourself and have boundaries around your needs and to protect yourself from harmful situations. If you know that this person is extremely triggering for you, then... :shrug:
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