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Old Nov 26, 2014, 10:05 AM
rubabe rubabe is offline
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I don't know what to do.
I have just applied through UCAS to universities for English literature. I am predicted A*A*A, and got AAB at AS level, thus I have to get at least AAA to get into any unis I applied for. I have no offers yet, but at this rate, I can't see myself getting AAA. My attendance is at 70%, and I am becoming worse every day. I am finding it so difficult to concentrate, be motivated to work or even get up in the morning. I just came off medication because I felt it was making me less intelligent.
I don't know if I can go on with this year, I don't even know if I can cope with university. I can't see myself being better before my exams or before next year when I start a really intense course.

I have also applied to do art foundation, which would be less stressful, but I'd feel like a failure - I am an academic, high standards etc. I don't even know if I'll get in, I'm better at English than Art. Although I think they would be more complacent if I dropped out of the rest of this year.

Please help. I could go through this year and come out with ABB or something but I'd be upset with that for the rest of my life.

Thanks guys.
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Old Nov 26, 2014, 03:55 PM
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What is AAA? You can do an awful lot with an English Literature degree. I wish I went that route instead of engineering. I dropped out a semester as well (at PSU) due to mood disorder, breakdown. A big university was way too much for me.
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Old Nov 27, 2014, 07:44 AM
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It is great to have goals and dreams but maybe the pressure you are putting on yourself is too much and is actually causing your grades to suffer. All I can say is do your best and let the rest go as best you can. Things have a way of working out the way they are meant to.
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Old Nov 27, 2014, 09:03 AM
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How were you doing when you were taking meds? (vs how you perceived yourself)...
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Old Nov 28, 2014, 01:05 AM
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You may feel like you'd be upset for the rest of your life.

But in the bigger realm of things, considering how long we live for, this is a drop in the ocean and one moment in your life.

Don't beat yourself up over this.

Not sure how your system works over there. Any chance you can request a years suspension due to medical reasons to do a fresh start the following year when you're hopefully more stable?
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Old Dec 02, 2014, 10:44 PM
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Do NOT drop out.
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