[Real_not_perfect]

I have a fear of the future, and it's only getting worse because of my grades. It seems that high school grades basically define whether you are worth it in life or not (according most of the adults I know) and when I think about it, I wouldn't be able to go to college in the future and the type of job/field I would like to go into in the future a requirement is college. And it seems (to my knowledge, I could be wrong sorry) that to even get a job you need some kind of education finished and I don't feel like that will happen with me. I was never a kid who really got good grades (I'm mainly in the D's and C's area, but I do get A's/B's in a class or two) and the past marking period I managed to get an F for the first time. My parents made a huge deal out of it and I ended up having a panic attack. I feel like I'm going to end up getting another F because I'm so terrible with Algebra and I constantly zone out in that class and don't understand anything and tutoring usually doesn't work for me.

Well, technically I am a freshman so I have plenty of time to improve my grades for the future, but for now I am still terrible in school and unmotivated, how can I make this better before it gets worse?

[palerefraction]

hi Real_not_perfect!
As someone who just graduated high school from the States, let me say that you don't need a 4.0 GPA to get into college! It is very possible to get into college! Many of them have certain criteria, like preferred SAT scores, preferred GPA, or foreign language requirements. You are allowed to miss a few of those as long as you have the rest.
as far getting through your classes now, talk to your school! try joining a club- at my high school, we could be a part of any club, but to really participate (like at concerts or in plays or occasionally field trips) we had to be doing well in our classes. maybe it would motivate you!
your parents I think mean well when they tell you these things, and you're right, there's plenty of time to turn things around! don't be afraid to ask for help. everybody around you has been through school!
don't be afraid to pm me if you need help! (algebra was one of my better subjects!)

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I'm in Junior Year right now, and as a person who's ended every semester with A's or above average grades, I feel ya! Everyone knows that junior year is the toughest (to a majority, but be prepared!), and I have like two low C's and a frickn' D in the highest Chem. class available at my school, and I'm ending these with the first semester unless I get better grades on current assignments. Does your teacher(s) still provide you with assignments so you can raise your grades?

Also, I see you have trouble with Algebra. Algebra was the most easiest math level to me which is why I'm ahead a year (half of the high-school students get that choice depending on grades). If you want, I could help you with Algebra stuff :3 Or you know what? Youtube has really helpful teachers that can explain certain subjects, at some times, way more clearly than your schoolteacher, I have to admit.

[CapedCrusader]

I think grades doesn't matter as long they're all passed. In the future, grades are not gonna matter. Whats gonna matter is that our own unique way of seeing things. It's like how you uniquely do the job done. Of course, we have to use our brain. If I were to hire someone, I would choose the one with great instinct and with great minds.

[unicornlady]

A year ago, I helped my best friend get into college. (I was helping her mainly with searching for colleges and getting organized with regards to application deadlines). Her high school grades resembled your grades – freshman year, mostly C’s and D’s, a couple A’s and B’s. After that, she tried harder, mostly B’s and C’s, but still a D or two, and she failed Algebra. She had to take it over the summer to make it up. But there were options for her. Currently she is attending college in the field she always dreamed about, and very happy with her program. So there is hope. Even if you cannot manage to raise your grades, there are jobs that don’t just care about grades. They care about activities – clubs, community service, etc.

But as you said, you are a freshman, so you have plenty of time to improve your grades for the future. My biggest piece of advice would be to get help from the teacher. I am in my fourth year of college, and whenever I am struggling, by now I know to go to the teacher for extra help. I didn’t understand that until college! Try to work that out. If your teacher is unavailable, see if you can get help from somebody in the class who understands it, even if they aren’t your friend – people can be nicer than you expect. This wouldn’t be the same as tutoring because the teacher would (hopefully) have good ways of explaining it, and they know the subject well. If you’re learning from a peer, they’re probably dealing with some of the same struggles as you are in understanding the subject.

I know it’s hard to deal with your parents’ disappointment, but don’t worry so much – no matter what grades you get, you can show your skills in other areas and there will be some college that will take you. Even if no regular university/college will take you, you can start at a local/community college and then transfer.

Just keep working at it, and if you fail Algebra now, try to take it again soon.

[Zaila]

Schools always overemphasize the need for high grades. I knew plenty of friends who received at least two D or F's on their report cards and still managed to get into a good state school. You can always retake classes if needed, and dont be discouraged if your first year starts off bad. Don't forget, schools also like to see extra circulars such as sports or clubs so those would be a big bonus for you especially if your a little weaker on the academic area. You still have a lot of time to catch up your GPA but it is good that your thinking ahead. Just don't let it bother you too much! Ask your teacher for help