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Old Jun 24, 2009, 08:26 PM
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Does anybody else experience withdrawal-like symptoms when they can't cut? IE: Headaches, nausea, dizziness, etc. I've been experiencing this for about 2 weeks, and out of everything, cutting is the only thing that alleviates it. Since I haven't cut in 3 days, it is getting worse.

Is this "normal?" Is this even possible?
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Old Jun 24, 2009, 09:10 PM
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Does anybody else experience withdrawal-like symptoms when they can't cut? IE: Headaches, nausea, dizziness, etc. I've been experiencing this for about 2 weeks, and out of everything, cutting is the only thing that alleviates it. Since I haven't cut in 3 days, it is getting worse.

Is this "normal?" Is this even possible?
What a great question - biologically yes, it's possible. Cutting releases endorphines that can contribute to the way the body reacts and releases tension that may contribute to headaches etc... So science is on your side about that.

But, could there also be a psychological reason. I know for me when I have stopped for a few days my mind plays tricks on me and creates other symptoms. This stuff is HARD!!! Now that you are working at not cutting are you trying to learn other tools? Are you being gentle with yourself? I find myself talking to myself (not in an abnormal way) but trying to reason with myself and acknowledge that I want to cut but I can try something else, I reach out to friends, and what my therapist did say was working out is a huge one. All that energy that would have gone to cutting gets released even in a 45 minute work-out and that releases endorphines.

Your symptoms are real but you don't have to cut to get rid of them, there are other ways. Congrats on the 3 days.

btw...maybe if you have a therapist you can talk to them about some meds in the mean time to help.
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Old Jun 24, 2009, 09:42 PM
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My therapist is working with me about stopping, but she basically just asked me to reduce the frequency and number. Because of my personality, I took that as a challenge, and I'm trying to quit cold turkey. While I have been able to hold off and not cut for the past 3 days, we haven't really come up with anything to replace it, so I guess, sort of being an addictive behavior, quitting without replacing it is taking its toll on me. I haven't really talked to her about the withdrawal symptoms, because I didn't consider them as withdrawal symptoms until recently.

Working out does seem like a good idea, because that was one of the replacements I've considered, but often when I get the urge to cut, I'm not in a place where I can drop everything and start working out. In fact, I'm rarely ever in a place where I can do that.
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Old Jun 25, 2009, 10:47 AM
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yes, I get horrible withdrawl symptoms
It is so hard to tolerate them, but
it's like quitting smoking
You keep having all these urges and frustrations because you are trying to let yourself recover
It feels like it's so hard, but when you reflect on it, it's hard to push past.
The scars that you create are very hard to remove once you make them on your
body
Once you try to keep your mind off the urges by use of distraction techniques, you will make it up the mountain
the feelings feel awful, but in the long run, if you can push past, you will be less
likely to self injur again
Keep me posted, I know that you can do it!
Warm wishes and thinking about you
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Old Jun 25, 2009, 01:03 PM
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Yes, it is possible, as cutting releases chemicals, therefore when you stop, you are no longer releasing the chemicals your body have become dependent on/used to/addicted to so to speak, both psychologically and physiology wise... if that makes sense... I think others make more sense than me on this one!
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Old Jun 25, 2009, 08:00 PM
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Working out does seem like a good idea, because that was one of the replacements I've considered, but often when I get the urge to cut, I'm not in a place where I can drop everything and start working out. In fact, I'm rarely ever in a place where I can do that.
It's hard...as far as the working out thing. I love a good workout but when I am in a mental place of being willing to try something else and going to the gym is not possible I will (if alone or not go into a bathroom) and pumping my arms for 5 minutes, breathe deeply in and out to get the blood flowing, take a 5 minute power walk. Just something to get the endorphins going.
This is an addicitive behavior and it's addicitive in part b/c our bodies get a rush.
Sounds like you and your therapist are working this out together and that is outstanding.
Even just getting outside and taking in some fresh air can be really helpful for me. Our bodies respond to all of that and need it.
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Old Jun 25, 2009, 09:28 PM
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fallen - with the working out, is it something you can just do anyway? i'm just thinking maybe if it was something you did, say, every morning, then it might lessen your urge to self harm later in the day. instead of only doing it when the urge comes.
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