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Oct 05, 2009, 08:33 PM
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I feel like a ***** for saying so, but I'm feeling like the support I'm getting is waning. I have SO many people who are SO supportive of me, yet I'm still getting this feeling.
I feel like I want to SI, but at the same time, I feel like doing so will disappoint the support that I do have. I'm trying my alternative coping methods, and they're working for the moment, but I fear that they won't help me hold off forever.  I don't know...I'm just a big mess of feelings right now. 
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Oct 05, 2009, 09:03 PM
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sorry to hear that hun! Keep up with your strategies to cope. Is there ways you can find more irl support? You know that pc is a valuable support also.
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Oct 06, 2009, 12:33 AM
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*ducks to avoid flying projectiles*
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Oct 06, 2009, 02:53 AM
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thats not good that it feels that way. Sometimes if i don't get a response i will bump my post up again. When you do get support here, does it help?
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Oct 06, 2009, 03:50 AM
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Oct 06, 2009, 08:08 AM
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I am sorry you are feeling unsupported right now. I know how hard it can be when it takes a while to get a response. Sometimes people are not in a good place themselves and sometimes they are not sure what to say. Know I am here and I care. You can PM me anytime. It is especially hard if it is late at night or very early in the morning as not as many people are on. Please know you are cared for.
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#7
Oct 06, 2009, 09:45 AM
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Do you get what I am saying? Like you really wish for some space from them so that you can SI without disappointing? Does this make sense????
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Oct 06, 2009, 10:26 AM
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I don't feel like I'm necessarily distancing myself (no more so than usual, at least), but I feel like I'm reaching out, and support simply isn't there like it used to be.
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There is poetry in despair.
Love attracts all those who taint the cherished. |
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Oct 06, 2009, 10:28 AM
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I feel like a jerk for even bringing this up, because I totally understand that sometimes people aren't in a good place, or anything like that, but sometimes I feel like my threads are being skipped over and ignored. (not only here, but in other sub-forums on the site.) Maybe this is just me being paranoid, though... 
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Oct 08, 2009, 01:21 PM
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This happens for various reasons. Sometimes I post on a person's thread and I am ignored over and over again while they respond to others. Who knows what is going on???? I have learned not to take it personal or feel bad about it. I know that can be hard.
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Don't let your problems or the world make you feel small. Stretch your arms out over your head. Take a deep breathe. Tell yourself that you are big. You are big, not small. You always have space, you are not trapped........ I'm an ISFJ |
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Oct 10, 2009, 03:04 PM
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'm feelin a lot of what you are at the moment. I don't feel like i have any support at all an that my threads are ignored too. But i have come to realise that there are lots of ppl on here who are going thru alot too an sometimes they my not be able to give any support or jus don't have time to.
It is disheartening i know but pls keep strong! Sending *hugs* lara |
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