[HALLIEBETH87]

as it turns out, my best friend and i are no longer friends. we hardly spoke at graduation last night or at project graduation. she called today asking what my problem is but i am only upset b/c of how SHE has been acting. she has a rather high financial status, whereas i don't. she takes EVERYTHING for granted b/c she doesn't work for anything!!!!!!!! and she doesnt understand why I AM UPSET! she didnt work at all in her classes in school, she didnt have to b/c she already knows she is going to college. mommy and daddy are going to pay for it so it doesnt matter if she tries in hs! i on the other hand have worked so hard at school so i can get grants and scholarships b/c i dont have the money to go. i wasnt a big deal to me that i graduted last night with high academic honors b/c i knew i'd earned it. lin-z though didnt even have a 3.0 gpa, she didnt work for that. i helped her so much of her work, its ridiculous.

sorry she called earlier asking what my problem is. i hung up but i am still pissed. i am thinking about but avoiding si. aaaaaaarrrrrrrgggggghhhh! i dont care if i NEVER see her again. all she does is take take take and think about herself.

i just needed to vent!

[darkeyes]

Congratulations on your graduation
I can understand your frustration, but the part of this that I hope you will have and/or keep inner pride, you worked for what you got, you'll have a better grasp on life and the world beyond school.
On the otherhand your friend won't, and her struggle will begin big time, not being in touch with reality, school, work, and independency.
If you find her irritating, makes you miserable, remove yourself from that relationship, maybe even stay as distant friends?

I wish you lots of luck with this,

DE

[HALLIEBETH87]

we r no longer friends. she is pissed at me hardcore and i am having a hard time. i cut this morning, something i hadnt done in almost a month. i just want to 495.

[Rapunzel]

Halliebeth,

Congrats on your graduation and accomplishments. It is frustrating when someone you care about doesn't take things seriously like you do. She isn't going to continue to get good results unless she learns though. Her choices don't have to take away from all that you have done though. Maybe it seems unfair that she get so many rewards and seems to have it easy when you have to work for everything. It isn't fair, but what you have done means just as much. It sounds like there is more to the story than what you have said here.

[ickydog2006]

CONGRATS ON GRATUATION!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
i still have one more year *grumbles to self* I'm glad to know at least someone is free from that. I have one friend that is like yours. SHE drives me insane. But for the most part no one in my town has the money for college and most of my class will become bums, living off the streets, and never leaving the town. I hope you find college more rewarding than highschool.