[avoice]

Hi you all know me pretty well by know. Hopefully have seen a lot of people that si. Sure I've been there not pretty. I think I now look at this way. si as a way of me getting attention so I don't care to do it.There are better ways to get attention. Think of it this way the scars never go away. On the outside you are scarred for life. Why not get attention another way if your in need of attention Trust me it only leaves a mess for everybody to clean up. The si forums scare me the most i'm afraid to read anybody post that has a trigger icon it is my stuff not yours nothing to do with anybody here just don't want to go down that road again. Maybe I still have baggage of my own to deal with as far as si i'm scared **** less to go back there.

[Kiya]

yep - lots of us have to stay clear of this forum lest we side track ourselves (again). I am a perfect example as I was sensing the urges again; i visited again with the intention of getting help on the urges. it really didn't help. I went back down a track i've not visited in a fairly long time (maybe 5 months?).
Just always do what YOU need to do to keep safe.
peace

[IchbinkeinTeufel]

So true. This isn't always the place to go. IMO, sometimes you should be distracting yourself and focusing on the illogicality of it all, as opposed to jumping into the ----. It seems to me, to be little difference to the stupidity of a recovering alcohol hanging out in a pub.

[Mike_J]

I have never done SI for attention, wish it was that simple